It turns out I cannot escape my Alpha male nature. I love the idea of being a submissive but when I tried with girlfriends it just kinda got silly. I am 6 foot 240 lbs, played sports, fought in school and am now a mountain climber. I have a couple degrees in challenging fields, have an X wife and 4 kids. As I said, I loved and tried to be a submissive buy given my build and profession and intelligence I never quite got there. So, .... I am accepting my nature, I am an Alpha male, big strong lumpy guy, grew up outside Detroit, have been in my fair share of fights and have a good number of well earned scars. I think its time I follow my nature. I can guide you and help you. I think of myself as a life coach if you follow my instructions.
I love the idea of being restricted. I believe there is much to be learned in being held tight against silly whims. Sometimes you just need to be held really tight until silly urges pass.
No scars. Discipline is useful but I see it as a corrective action rather than punishments'.
I am for real. I am very intelligent and fairly successful. I do not need your money nor will ask for it. I want to guide a submissive into a better place, while at the same time providing me satisfaction and maybe a little fun from time to time.