RustlingLeaves
dom male

United States
Age
36
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
General
A dude from the cornfields of flyover country. Dedicated to my family. Lover of animals, and most fond of cats (I have 2). Outside of "the bedroom" (scare quotes cause we all know that just means sex) i'm a teddy bear, daddy type. "Inside the bedroom" I can be sadistic when I want to be, but of course i'm not just one dimensional there either. I am in a polyamorous relationship, I have one partner and we're long distance. I won't go into more details on that in a public forum, as she isn't on cage.

Appearance

I'm 5'10", black hair that I wear long (though it has a few grey streaks), facial hair which for now is a goatee, brown eyes which are bespectacled, and a couple of tasteful facial piercings (lip & eyebrow).

Hobbies & Interests

Lover of music. This mainly manifests as a passion for metal, but anything that moves me in some way gets my seal of approval so you would find quite a wide variety in my music folder. I also faff about on the guitar from time to time.

As for the rest of my interests, i'm a pretty typical nerd type. Into Sci-Fi & Fantasy when it comes to movies/tv/books. The only thing I don't really have a taste for is anime. There are some exceptions, but in general I find it hard to sit through. I do play video games, and as of right now my main game is Fortnite.

Political

Staunchly leftist. Pro-Choice, BLM, believer in unionizing, trans rights are human rights, etc. Of course, where I start to differ is when socialism and communism start to pop up. I'm not deeply well read on these topics, but they are effective cudgels the right wing uses bc of their tendency towards authoritarianism. Not that I think that cudgel usage is in good faith of course, because the right wing is actually more authoritarian than silly kids in Che Guevara shirts. I don't think Capitalism is bad itself, but it is super bad in it's current, almost entirely unregulated form. If the republican party wasn't so broken (it's been broken for a good chunk of my lifetime - see Clinton Impeachment, Torture/Patriot act under Bush/Cheney, Birtherism during the Obama era, and an absolute underlying baseline of bigotry to it all), maybe we could get legislation passed that was worth a damn, but ya know.

I say all of that to say, Donald John Trump is the most unfit man to have ever held elected office in the entire history of our nation, and he should never be allowed to do so again after trying to overturn the results of a decidedly free & fair election.
BDSM and me
Consent is mandatory. From you of course, but also from me.

I'm a Dom who thrives on both the pleasure and the pain of my submissive in the bedroom. I would say i'm an intermediate level sadist. I love to inflict pain upon willing subs, but prefer it through a lighter prism, and generally don't engage in -heavy- sadism. There are of course exceptions i'd make if the connection with the sub facilitated me being comfortable with doing so. Impact play is my favorite, though.
Limits
Anything illegal. Scat. People without safe words.
Update date
Aug 14, 2023
Member since
May 24, 2022
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