WineandMine

United States
Age
30
About me

27. Attorney. Near NYC area. 

Do you like sushi, wine, adventure… and oh, kinky submissive sex ? 

I live near NYC with my fiancé and I’m looking for a submissive FEMALE third who desires an IRL 24/7 D’s dynamic with a softer Dom. * While the dynamic would be 24/7, please understand that logically speaking, there are just certain limitations to 24/7. Like, if we’re out at dinner I’m not walking you into a restaurant with a collar and leash, unless we’re at some tropical bdsm resort. 

BDSM and me
I’ve been into BDSM for over 9 years and prefer to be in the dominant role as I have a natural “mentor-based” personality & have been told I like things to get done “my way” : so consider that both a gift and curse. I’m much more of a “soft Dom” on the scale & do not enjoy beating anyone senseless, keeping someone in a 24/7 cage, and using a woman as a “cum rag.” I’m looking for someone who wants to fully live the lifestyle with a heavy emphasis on bondage, orgasm control, rules and tasks/service. I actively live the Ds lifestyle 24/7 with my fiancé & am looking to add another FEMALE submissive to our relationship/home. Keep in mind that while we’re polyamorous in terms of a 3rd, the dynamic would ONLY be between the 3 of us. As a sub, you’d be more of a service submissive to her & physical with myself. Feel free to ask / message with questions.
Limits

The usual illegal/ heavily extreme +. No Public sex or exhibitionism. 

 

Do NOT message me if you are not serious, looking for a hookup/ strange erotic fling, are the jealous type, cannot emotionally/ mentally handle a “three’s” relationship, and are not interested or physically capable of meeting in person… I do not like my time being wasted as I try to be very respectful of yours. 

What's new
Actively looking
Update date
May 31, 2022
Member since
May 29, 2022
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