TheVampTrav

switch male

34

Single

Hey all! I’m Travis! These about me sections are the worst when you see” BDSM and me” like…is there a difference? What am I suppose to say in this box but not the next?? I guess I’ll talk about the boring stuff… I’m 32 years only and I’m from Tennessee, apparently we’re the volunteer state? But aint nobody over here ? I own a small business, which we can talk about privately of course:) Likes: Rock climbing, Cooking, Eating, Beer, Bourbon, Books, History, 420 and many other things Dislikes: Negativity, unnecessary drama, lying, pancakes ? actually…all cake…besides the best kind…?, arrogance

Its so difficult to define what to put in this section as well...probably because there are certain things that trigger different reactions, different feelings, and thoughts. I'm not the type of person to do something without any thought, or emotion. For a man, sometimes i feel i'm too involved with my emotions, sometimes I feel to weak to be a dominant and to strong to be a submissive.

With that being said, I've never got to fully experience being a "switch". I honestly love the idea of being able to feel comfortable enough with someone to experience that. I have only got to be one...or the other. I suppose i find my needs with both "sides" in many different ways, and explaining it here...well would be boring and would not give you a reason to want to know more :p

I heavily embrace energy. I love to focus, and i like the idea of being a composer. Having something so beautiful in front of me that i am guiding along, sometimes the music can be soft, sometimes it requires delicacy,  finesse. Sometimes the music over powers the composers existence, sometimes it even blows the composer away...the power and dominance this music has, and while the composer is still guiding it...he feels...in awe. And yet...sometimes I just want to take that analogy and rip it to shreds? 

I guess BDSM and me really comes down to a couple of things

Flow. Energy. And most of all effort. 

if you are not willing to verify your identity to me just as I would to you then do not contact me. 

ps. I’m a switch. Not homosexual or bisexual. If you and your submissive want to get to know me the please be prepared for me to be involved in your dynamic. Please learn your terms. And please respect me. At all times. 

Anything pegging related, not a huge fan of being degraded, no children, and really Noone who judges a person off of political nonsense. 

We all have our thoughts and opinions and would never let my differences stop me from getting to know someone:)

Ask me:)

Mar 25, 2024

Jun 9, 2022