Technically a bit of IT guy, and nop, not the nerdy one, involving sales & marketing too.
Consider tall for average asian height, but not the bamboo.
Well spoken in multi-language used in Malaysia as Malaysian Chinese here.
To be honest, exploring my sub side.
Well acknowledge of BDSM for years but not that well experienced as I'm not that active around.
Hygiene is key, and big no for permanent damage.