sugarella

Hi, I’m Ella. 

20-something Seattle native with a caffeine addiction and an immunity to rain to show for it. I’m introverted and have been rightly accused of “thinking too much and talking too little” but you can coax me out with playful banter and judicious usage of emojis. 

I already have a partner who fulfills the role of Daddy for me, so I’m here for friends and mentors. 

I’m NOT seeking online D/s interactions. Superficial connections will be sidestepped.

Ask me anything, as long as you wouldn't mind answering it yourself. 

Well-steeped in the theory of BDSM, lack the experience. I’ve always known I was submissive, just never had the framework to explore it until recently. You can witness my meandering down the rabbit hole via my blog. Yes, that was a blatant bit of self-advertising and no, shame isn’t something I commonly feel.

My preferred flavor of kink blends DD/lg and pet play dynamics with a healthy dose of sadism and bondage. Happy to swap experiences and lessons learned. 

Please don’t call me “sub” “slut” “slavegirl” “baby” “pet” “little” etc unless we establish an agreement.
Titles are earned. I want to meet as respectful equals and allow the power dynamics to sort themselves out organically.