58 year old (looks 5 years younger) 1.72 metres 73 kg average build short greying brown hair and blue eyes with strong nose. I am an experienced intelligent dom seeking a soulmate sub for a long term relationship and hopefully marriage. I am recently separated (non d/s marriage). I am kind, firm but fair and looking for a tightly bonded relationship with intense connection built on trust, communication, respect, care and love. I will cherish and nurture and treasure and protect you. You will adore and worship and obey and serve me . Our relationship will be powerfully rewarding for us and mutually supportive and fulfilling in different ways. The relationship is all and the synergy will energise us both. You will be listened to like never before. I will communicate the expectations of you directly and clearly. I will take all the decisions for us carefully after consulting with you as my second in command. I am an educated professional and I am psychologically sophisticated. You must be open minded, reflective and have a giggle. You should understand or be willing to learn about the many paradoxes of domination and submission and be able to see beyond the face value. If you are an anxious and often needy sub you are very welcome to contact me. You must be eager to please and serve me. We will appear 'vanilla' to all others and will enjoy having our own private world. I adore femininity and its signs and symbols - trouser wearers need not apply. I will wear the trousers and in my presence you will always wear dresses and skirts. I will often like to see my sub with hair accessories, lipstick, nail varnish, perfume, mascara, makeup, heels and hosiery and pretty dresses and cute nighties.
I have no interest in extreme bdsm and inflicting pain. Have no doubt though I can be strict and demand obedience and I will administer firm over the knee disciplinary spankings if ever necessary. Hopefully they won't be needed very often if at all. I have no interest in anyone who would describe themselves as a 'brat' or a 24/7 'little' (although there can and should be elements of paternal care in the dynamic). I am not interested in exhibitionism or any BDSM scene. I am serious and fun and have a wide range of interests including team sports, current affairs, dogs, music, gardening, walking, history and travel. You should love dogs as much as me. I like both cities and countryside, especially rivers. I have centre left politics and values. Please note the importance of politics to me (politics is life not just about political parties) and that my political values are the basis of my world view. I am not religious. I will expect you to do your utmost best to serve by keeping our house under my direction and leadership. I will always encourage and support you if I can see you are trying your best . I need a connection in all ways and have a strong libido. Please note if we are a successful match I would command you to relocate to live with me. Please do message me to tell me about yourself and what you are looking and hoping for x Sir Kind
Experienced - I am not into inflicting pain or extreme bdsm - I like the sensual and erotic eg tying my sub with soft stockings.
Anything illegal or immoral or unethical, pain blood, waste products.