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ToyForMastressesJoy
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
ToyForMastressesJoy
Gender
Male
About me
Im a White South African Male , 46
I live in Cape Town , South Africa
Im new to this Lifestyle
Looking for a Domineering , Strict , Autocratic Mastress
She will Train Me to be HER Perfect Servant .
During this time I will be Hers to Command .
Ill NEVER Deny or Defy Her Will .
I Really am in the Market for a Long Term Relationship , eventually leading to a T.P.E Relationship
Mastress will be my only Priority + Serving Her will b My Honor
Ill WORK HARD at it , Devoting My Life to HER .
My Measurements are : Length = 20.4 cm ( 8,03 Inches ) , Girth = 14.5 cm ( 5.71 Inches ) , Width = 4.7 cm ( 1.85 Inches )
Im Looking For a MASTRESS who will Exercise ABSOLUTE POWER + CONTROL . Cruelty , Pain , humiliation + Spite arent what im looking for . She is Sure i will NEVER disobey Her Orders + SHE knows that HER WORD IS THE ONLY WORD + Her Word is my LAW + my only REALITY . SHE will Ensnare my Mind , Captivate my Interest , Charm me + Awaken a DEEP NEED to Willingly GIVE myself to HER + to SERVE ONLY HER WISHES + DESIRES ! . She enjoys being Obeyed without question + doesnt get off on inflicting Pain , because She isnt a Sociopath / Psychopath ... Ill willingly Obey every Order + Seek only to be of benefit to HER + will always Further HER Ambitions . i Want to Serve a GODDESS who occasionally Rewards me + isnt a Sociopath thats ONLY into Torturing + Hurting HER Submissive . She doesnt feel the need to Constantly Prove Her Supremacy over HER Pet through Sadistic Cruelty OR MANIPULATION . SHE gets Pleasure from being Obeyed + Fulfillment from being Diligently Served . HER SUPREMACY + GOVERNANCE is not even remotely Questioned or Ever Challenged by me . SHE is my BOSS . To HER i willingly Surrender my ego , my body , my soul + my exclusive Service , Devotion + Worship ! . my Free Will, my ability to make Choices + Decisions i WILL forfeit , IT ALL will become Urs Goddess , to make for me . MASTERESS will Seize Total Control from the moment She Lays Her Eyes on me
I will wear Anything She Provides for me to wear + She will decide what my name will be ...
If Goddess is interested in Claiming me
Please reply at Ur Convenience
Havva Fantastic Day Further My Queen !
Ur Humble Servant
I live in Cape Town , South Africa
Im new to this Lifestyle
Looking for a Domineering , Strict , Autocratic Mastress
She will Train Me to be HER Perfect Servant .
During this time I will be Hers to Command .
Ill NEVER Deny or Defy Her Will .
I Really am in the Market for a Long Term Relationship , eventually leading to a T.P.E Relationship
Mastress will be my only Priority + Serving Her will b My Honor
Ill WORK HARD at it , Devoting My Life to HER .
My Measurements are : Length = 20.4 cm ( 8,03 Inches ) , Girth = 14.5 cm ( 5.71 Inches ) , Width = 4.7 cm ( 1.85 Inches )
Im Looking For a MASTRESS who will Exercise ABSOLUTE POWER + CONTROL . Cruelty , Pain , humiliation + Spite arent what im looking for . She is Sure i will NEVER disobey Her Orders + SHE knows that HER WORD IS THE ONLY WORD + Her Word is my LAW + my only REALITY . SHE will Ensnare my Mind , Captivate my Interest , Charm me + Awaken a DEEP NEED to Willingly GIVE myself to HER + to SERVE ONLY HER WISHES + DESIRES ! . She enjoys being Obeyed without question + doesnt get off on inflicting Pain , because She isnt a Sociopath / Psychopath ... Ill willingly Obey every Order + Seek only to be of benefit to HER + will always Further HER Ambitions . i Want to Serve a GODDESS who occasionally Rewards me + isnt a Sociopath thats ONLY into Torturing + Hurting HER Submissive . She doesnt feel the need to Constantly Prove Her Supremacy over HER Pet through Sadistic Cruelty OR MANIPULATION . SHE gets Pleasure from being Obeyed + Fulfillment from being Diligently Served . HER SUPREMACY + GOVERNANCE is not even remotely Questioned or Ever Challenged by me . SHE is my BOSS . To HER i willingly Surrender my ego , my body , my soul + my exclusive Service , Devotion + Worship ! . my Free Will, my ability to make Choices + Decisions i WILL forfeit , IT ALL will become Urs Goddess , to make for me . MASTERESS will Seize Total Control from the moment She Lays Her Eyes on me
I will wear Anything She Provides for me to wear + She will decide what my name will be ...
If Goddess is interested in Claiming me
Please reply at Ur Convenience
Havva Fantastic Day Further My Queen !
Ur Humble Servant
BDSM and me
Im VERY NEW to this Life-Style
But I am Very Eager + Willing to be Trained , House-Broken + Overwhelmed , to have my Ego Completely Destroyed by a Meticulous + Decisive Mastress . I have learned that I Yearn to be Controlled , Domineered , Possessed + Owned by a Demanding + Strong-Willed Mastress . . I am Naturally Submissive + cannot help but to Want to Obey + be Useful to Her , when in the Presence of such a Divine + Superior Goddess . I Always used to find Myself in Relationships with Women My Friends would Describe as Controlling , at 1st the Rebel in me used to resist being Controlled . So I would end the Relationships . After learning that it was a pattern of Mine , i vowed to not get into any more Relationships with Controlling Women . Yet here We r ... it took Falling for about 3 more Domineering Women , before i realized its Clearly what i wanted as I gravitate towards Powerful Domineering Women . So ive decided to embrace my proclivity for being Dominated , rather than struggle against it . i Feel more complete now , as theres no more Turmoil in me . i understand myself now , and myself is some1 who wants to be Micro-Managed and Domineered , used like the Servant that i am . The mere thought of Relinquishing My Free-Will + Indulging Her Every Desire , Excites Me Very Much . . This is my 1st foray into finding a Mastress + having Roles Clearly agreed upon right from the Start , as opposed to finding a GF and resisting Her Control all the way ..
This way itll be a lot easier , because Ill know where I stand (or kneel) in the Relationship + theres no Ambiguity ...
I can Simply Willingly Submit + Obey right from Start + be Trained + Molded into Her Perfect Subject , Pet , Toy + Slave-Boy
and Devote Myself to Worshiping HER Completely , striving Only to bring HER Pleasure + Joy .
Ill wear what-ever my Mastress gives me to Wear , Kink + Fetish Gear , Cross-Dressing , Cosplay , Nothing , Collar + Leash ...
What ever She Chooses + Provides for HER Pet / Toy .
I also dont mind being Possessed by a Dominatrix Younger than Me , HER Age wont affect the Level of Respect Ill have for HER
SHE wont have any troubles with Disobedience from me , Because my Respect for HER + Devotion to HER will be Absolute !
But I am Very Eager + Willing to be Trained , House-Broken + Overwhelmed , to have my Ego Completely Destroyed by a Meticulous + Decisive Mastress . I have learned that I Yearn to be Controlled , Domineered , Possessed + Owned by a Demanding + Strong-Willed Mastress . . I am Naturally Submissive + cannot help but to Want to Obey + be Useful to Her , when in the Presence of such a Divine + Superior Goddess . I Always used to find Myself in Relationships with Women My Friends would Describe as Controlling , at 1st the Rebel in me used to resist being Controlled . So I would end the Relationships . After learning that it was a pattern of Mine , i vowed to not get into any more Relationships with Controlling Women . Yet here We r ... it took Falling for about 3 more Domineering Women , before i realized its Clearly what i wanted as I gravitate towards Powerful Domineering Women . So ive decided to embrace my proclivity for being Dominated , rather than struggle against it . i Feel more complete now , as theres no more Turmoil in me . i understand myself now , and myself is some1 who wants to be Micro-Managed and Domineered , used like the Servant that i am . The mere thought of Relinquishing My Free-Will + Indulging Her Every Desire , Excites Me Very Much . . This is my 1st foray into finding a Mastress + having Roles Clearly agreed upon right from the Start , as opposed to finding a GF and resisting Her Control all the way ..
This way itll be a lot easier , because Ill know where I stand (or kneel) in the Relationship + theres no Ambiguity ...
I can Simply Willingly Submit + Obey right from Start + be Trained + Molded into Her Perfect Subject , Pet , Toy + Slave-Boy
and Devote Myself to Worshiping HER Completely , striving Only to bring HER Pleasure + Joy .
Ill wear what-ever my Mastress gives me to Wear , Kink + Fetish Gear , Cross-Dressing , Cosplay , Nothing , Collar + Leash ...
What ever She Chooses + Provides for HER Pet / Toy .
I also dont mind being Possessed by a Dominatrix Younger than Me , HER Age wont affect the Level of Respect Ill have for HER
SHE wont have any troubles with Disobedience from me , Because my Respect for HER + Devotion to HER will be Absolute !
Limits
Sorry , but I do have a Few Conditions + Stuff I will NOT do....
No Scat , Urine or Excessive Pain Kinks , so No CBT , Knifeplay , Needleplay , Hooks , Branding etc
(If Hurting People is all U like to do when Ur given Total Power , get some Help , U may b a Sociopath or Something ...)
(I did Mention at the start that Im not looking for a Cruel + Vindictive Mistress...)
I Wont be "Tossing Any1s Salad"
I am NOT a PAYPIG or Santa Clause . HER ONLY GIFT is my Submission to HER Will + Control of my Life
Im HER Submissive ONLY , If SHE Desires to share me , I reserve the Right of Approval 1st !
Even if the relationship becomes a TPE Relationship :
- Access to My Family + Friends : Theyre also Important to Me , if Mastress cannot accept that , its not gonna work ...
- My Toilet Use will NEVER be HER decision , Im not gonna Pee / Shit My Pants , because SHE wouldnt allow Me to go ...
- My Work involves After Hours Stand-By , I get Calls Randomly at any Hour of the day + I MUST be On-Site within an Hour after getting a Call
This Is the 1 thing which has Priority over Mastresses Plans + MUST be Respected (the 1st time SHE Hinders My Livelyhood , its Deal Broken)
SHE can still Punish Me for it afterwards , but not allowing Me to do My Job (eg: by refusing to Untie / Uncuff Me)
The ONLY WAY that this Condition will Change is if SHE Desires a 24/7 Live-In Submissive + is willing to give Me an Allowance which is enough to cover My bills (which , Lets be realistic , isnt gonna happen...) So DO NOT hinder My ability to Earn a Living .
No Scat , Urine or Excessive Pain Kinks , so No CBT , Knifeplay , Needleplay , Hooks , Branding etc
(If Hurting People is all U like to do when Ur given Total Power , get some Help , U may b a Sociopath or Something ...)
(I did Mention at the start that Im not looking for a Cruel + Vindictive Mistress...)
I Wont be "Tossing Any1s Salad"
I am NOT a PAYPIG or Santa Clause . HER ONLY GIFT is my Submission to HER Will + Control of my Life
Im HER Submissive ONLY , If SHE Desires to share me , I reserve the Right of Approval 1st !
Even if the relationship becomes a TPE Relationship :
- Access to My Family + Friends : Theyre also Important to Me , if Mastress cannot accept that , its not gonna work ...
- My Toilet Use will NEVER be HER decision , Im not gonna Pee / Shit My Pants , because SHE wouldnt allow Me to go ...
- My Work involves After Hours Stand-By , I get Calls Randomly at any Hour of the day + I MUST be On-Site within an Hour after getting a Call
This Is the 1 thing which has Priority over Mastresses Plans + MUST be Respected (the 1st time SHE Hinders My Livelyhood , its Deal Broken)
SHE can still Punish Me for it afterwards , but not allowing Me to do My Job (eg: by refusing to Untie / Uncuff Me)
The ONLY WAY that this Condition will Change is if SHE Desires a 24/7 Live-In Submissive + is willing to give Me an Allowance which is enough to cover My bills (which , Lets be realistic , isnt gonna happen...) So DO NOT hinder My ability to Earn a Living .
What's new
With the Goddesses Permission , May i Address HER as my MASTRESS
For a Long Time now , I have had an Issue with the Word Mistress
Im of the Opinion that it doesnt Convey the Correct Amount of Respect .
"my Mistress" sounds More like someone I might amuse Myself with (if I was married)
which cannot be further from the Truth , the Truth of it is :
That I WILL be Mastresses' PET + TOY , existing Purely for HER Amusement .
Devoted to the Worship of HER Divinity + the Obedient Fulfillment of HER Commands
Compliance to All HER Decrees , The Furthering of HER Ambitions + Desires
the Completion of HER Goals + the Realization of HER Dreams
For a Long Time now , I have had an Issue with the Word Mistress
Im of the Opinion that it doesnt Convey the Correct Amount of Respect .
"my Mistress" sounds More like someone I might amuse Myself with (if I was married)
which cannot be further from the Truth , the Truth of it is :
That I WILL be Mastresses' PET + TOY , existing Purely for HER Amusement .
Devoted to the Worship of HER Divinity + the Obedient Fulfillment of HER Commands
Compliance to All HER Decrees , The Furthering of HER Ambitions + Desires
the Completion of HER Goals + the Realization of HER Dreams
Update date
May 16, 2023
Member since
Feb 23, 2023
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