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other male

New South Wales, Australia
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Age
61
Relationship status
Single
About me
I am a 60-years-old, fit, ddf, Viking - warrior submissive/poss-switch.

If permitted to serve Your house-hold, You will find me ferocious in my attention to Your needs, a tremendous defender of my Domina and a toughened - resilient - submission-battle-ready warrior upon Your every need.

I have no health issues, financially secure, single with no dependents, sensitive to sub-space/drop, emotionally intelligent, more generally intelligent and well educated, a work-place professional, have a strong vanilla support system in place.

Being 60, I realise I have much less to offer than those younger than me - so am in the process of upskilling, in order to be more worthwhile to a Domina who may give me an opportunity to prove myself.


 

BDSM and me

I entered Kink 4-months ago, identifying as a submissive - my deepest desires remain submissive.

Of late, however, I seem to be recognising several limits I appear unable to offer up in submission - wishing to never 'top from the bottom', I am in a process of exploration as to perhaps metamorphosing into a switch - this, possible transition is in its most immediate infancy and may resolve itself in outcomes not yet known - I do love serving !  

 

I wonder if this transition, may be my Viking nature coming to the fore - I remain, however, essentially and determinably submissive.

I hope for a D/s relationship within which I may, respectfully, express my intellect (eg: current affairs, politics, justice-fairness).

Within that relationship, I wish to participate in public and private kink seriousness and kink play - I have no interest in vanilla lifestyles, so am not able to submit to being a cleaner, driver, etc...while being kept celibate.

Being an avid student, I am seeking a Domme/mentor - who may assist me in becoming ever more worthwhile - to become the submissive that Domina wishes to serve Her, perhaps take me on or assist my training until such time as a Domme may find me worthy - in 2018, I will study Shibari, leather-work, Salsa - continue my massage education, patience, obedience, and onetaste-meditation - all directed to improving my abilities to deliver pleasing outcomes to a Domina.

I am generous but not available to Findom.

Limits

To have a robust, weekly, sex life - as defined by my Domme and if it is Her choosing, focused on whoever's pleasure.  I am prepared to gain my own pleasure vicariously, via others pleasure, but I wish my vicarious pleasures to occur regularly, weekly.

I am unable to submit, with any integrity, to celibacy - or permanent chastity.  I possess a cage, and am fitting for a newer, metal cage and am able to commit, with integrity to the authority of a key-holder, however, my releases must be regular - can be solely for the pleasure of another, but regularity is key - this is the switch aspect of  my personality coming to the fore.

In my first attempt at submission, I was utterly naive in the negotiation stage - I suffered terrible harms as a consequence.   I realise now, after receiving widespread support, that I must not abandon myself to submissions I know I cannot fulfill, or to Domina demands that I know will be harmful to me.

I equate harm as  utterly different from pain or suffering, both of which I am prepared to accept for a caring, supportive, generous, fair yet demanding and authoritative Domina.

Update date
Tuesday, January 2, 2018
Member since
Monday, December 18, 2017
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