Owned

I haven't, yet, felt the things of those above -

So far, though, my own sense of self has allowed me to be okay focusing upon another - it hasn't really been them or how I perceive them at all...i ...

Fri Jul 13, 2018 12:04 pm • 13 Replies • 8308 Views

Chastity as a Fetish

I guess, I wonder about differences between submission - domination & oppression - tyranny.


I don't get the a D has utter freedom to act upon their fetishes and kinks and a sub must be limit ...

Sun Jun 17, 2018 2:33 pm • 15 Replies • 15159 Views

A step too far - permanent chastity - celibacy

Hello Byrdie,

Thanks for the interest.

I have learnt, to be more patient - I was very new then and fell into the first potential D/s - threw myself in actually - this was all my responsibility ...

Thu May 24, 2018 2:11 pm • 12 Replies • 16880 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

Thanks for all of the above; I finally resigned - after attending an event and being publicly treated like a 'despised slave'.

In my resignation letter, I outlined that I am unable to let go of m ...

Wed Apr 04, 2018 9:08 am • 14 Replies • 14779 Views

Sexual expression

Hello Bellona,

The text below is my resignation letter - it is long, so if You decide not to read it...i understand.

In it, i tried to focus as much as i could upon myself - the reply, from the ...

Fri Mar 09, 2018 11:02 pm • 8 Replies • 8441 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

Thank you all, you replies have given me much food for thought.

I am new to submission, and this Domme is the only one to offer an opportunity - I asked for a discussion again last night and was de ...

Fri Feb 23, 2018 11:41 pm • 14 Replies • 14779 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

I read everywhere, that D/s is an exchange - that the exchange is developed via negotiation.

I have been, informally, serving a Domme for several months now - I have raised the idea of a negotiatio ...

Sat Feb 17, 2018 2:25 am • 14 Replies • 14779 Views

Chastity as a Fetish

Oh, i hate the idea of losing access, love the idea of sacrificing, to a Domme, things i have value for, such as access to my luggage.

I guess, this is the part where I'm coming from - if i agree t ...

Fri Jan 26, 2018 5:18 am • 15 Replies • 15159 Views

Chastity as a Fetish

I see from many posts, that many male subs are kept in chastity by their Dommes - suggested as a Domme form of control.

Yet, i see that many male’s have chastity fetishes and wonder that if the ch ...

Thu Jan 25, 2018 2:42 am • 15 Replies • 15159 Views

An over-eager, desperate and now forlorn new sub

Okay, i waited as suggested, when a service instruction came, i did as instructed and no more - eg: listened only - OMfkkingGoddess - on my knees passing the deliveries to the Goddess and She placed H ...

Mon Jan 15, 2018 4:16 am • 10 Replies • 13550 Views