FuckingOriginal
sadist female

Birmingham, England, United Kingdom
About me
Wow, where to start. Hi! I'm Fucking Original, my scene name is Faux and my honorifics are Master, Daddy, and Queen, although only people I'm in a dynamic with can call me those.

I'm a female top with any gender, so I enjoy all things anal play. More info in the BDSM section below.

Aside for that, I love traveling, eating sexy vegan food (ideally made by someone else haha), dancing when I can, and chilling with any type of non-human that won't eat me.

I'm mourning a relationship breakup at the moment, so mostly looking for friends and discussion, but have lots of hopes and plans for future dynamics.

I'm new to The Cage and excited to see what all the hype is about! Hope to maybe meet some of you at in-person munches too :)
BDSM and me
I've been in the BDSM scene since 2019. What originally got me into it was the acknowledgement that I desperately wanted to top, and most of the guys around me just didn't want to bottom.

Like many kinksters (although I would not call just pegging a 'kink' persay), I felt underserved by vanilla heteronormative expectations. So I found a munch on Fetlife. I had no idea what to expect, but went for it and took my then friend-with-benefits along for the ride.

Since then, I've had many experiences and recently (since May) became a Pro Dom. It's been a whirlwind of exploration, but I find myself still underserved by my local BDSM scene. For example, I'm a bisexual woman but haven't found many opportunities to play with other cis women. This isn't to say that I don't love everyone else, I truly do.

Similarly, I would love more experience with my interests that are less popular on the scene, such as hard CBT, sounding, 'alternative' bondage (e.g. predicament, lockable hoods), 1950s roleplay (with me as the patriarchal husband), Victorian-school type corporal punishment, and whatever I come up with next.

My style of domination is very intimate and sexual. I like smaller toys that give me good physical feedback and encourage closeness. A lot of my play is genital-focused - anal play, CBT, chastity, etc. I'm also a sadist and a degrader. My degrading style is similar to bullying or poking fun. A little bratty I guess. I'm a top first and a dom second, so topping is in my mind in the same way as PiV is for the heteronormative individual. But I also love domination and indulging in sadism.

I've taken a vow (completely informally) of chastity specifically related to PiV. My reasons are that I kept trying it and kept hating it. It's time to take it off the table completely to free myself up for other things, and make myself only open to people that don't expect that from me. This is not a forever decision, but it's working for now.

I aim to be caring and personable, both within my personal life and as a Pro Dom. I did this subconsciously anyway, but as a Pro, I've started actively and purposefully looking at the ways in which I interact with people. It's an interesting balance to strike.
Limits
Sexual ageplay - ABDL, CGL, DDLG, DDLB.
Raceplay of any kind
Expecting or assuming that I will bottom or sub for you (please read my profile).
Update date
Jul 19, 2023
Member since
Jun 10, 2023
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