Isn’t life a funny thing? With all the twist and turns that come along with it, I am still amazed what I learn everyday about people, places, things and feelings to name a few. Life is a spectacular thing where moments are made, discoveries are founded. To enjoy the freedoms we have to be us and to be amazed with the surprises that flood our senses
I have learned that it is no different in the lifestyle of BDSM. Here we are like minded people with a kaleidoscope of experiences in many different aspects of the lifestyle. We should be using this as a platform to learn from one another, understand different roles, scenes and interest. The simple respect we have for one another and the openness I have found to speaking with those on this site have been profoundly helpful.
I am still hurt though by the way that people feel the need to tear down someone and their desired kink. Why in such an understanding community do people feel the need to butt in and tear down someone because they don’t like them? How does that help anyone? They are that unhappy that they feel the need to put someone down, who happens to have nothing to do with them in all reality. It is really a shame that someone has to go to such theatrics to gain attention and try to hurt someone in the process.
I really hope that everyone can just enjoy each other’s company and learn from one another. Positivity, ingenuity, witty banter, education and respect is all that should be required to enjoy our time together.
Have a beautiful Day/Evening.