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Justmerw
Michigan, United States
Justmerw
Gender
Male
Relationship status
Single
About me
Northern Michigan based, 5 ft 9 inch, 185 lbs, light brown/grayish hair. Get along with people, can carry a conversation, looking for (Michigan preferred) IRL with Dom Mistresses' or Dom Couple. Also looking for new people to chat with to find out more about this life style from your perspective.
BDSM and me
An older male that has been in the life syle for almost two year. Presently a "in-service sub", learning this life style on day, one scene at a time!
Still a lot to learn (wants/needs/desires) about the BDSM lifestyle.
After experiencing one's first scene and realizing yes - "one fetish, one scene at a time". And relax, don't over think it, Just Let it Happen!! (Good music helps).
You do have your safe words and signals, use them when needed!
Past - Been enjoying toys, giving myself pain and pleasure for a while now,, but need more structured training by a true Domme, Dominate Mistress, or Dom Couple!!
This sub slave desired is to serve, *** This guy UNDERSTANDS; THE DOMINETES WANTS, NEEDS, DESIRES and PLEASURES COME FIRST***
(Do not want to be used/abused by fake Mistresses).
This one communicates well, is truthful, loyal, listens twice as much as talks, hard working at anything this one attempts, but needs in person training here in Michigan (preferred), not long distance!
kinks this one's willing to try/learn;
Some are;
Would like to meet more play partners to be topped for kinks this one's willing to try/learn - Some are;
Event Volunteer and/or Scene sub for, (see wants/Limits)
~ More Impact - spanking, paddling, flogging, whips and canes,,, (OMG - Finger Nails)
~ More CBT, bondage, light rope restraints, harnesses maybe,
~ To experience more electrical play, (in cbt, too), and knife play.
~ In the Future - want to try; sounding, edging, hot wax play, saran wrap, pressure cupping, cold branding, and possible pegging.
Still a lot to learn (wants/needs/desires) about the BDSM lifestyle.
After experiencing one's first scene and realizing yes - "one fetish, one scene at a time". And relax, don't over think it, Just Let it Happen!! (Good music helps).
You do have your safe words and signals, use them when needed!
Past - Been enjoying toys, giving myself pain and pleasure for a while now,, but need more structured training by a true Domme, Dominate Mistress, or Dom Couple!!
This sub slave desired is to serve, *** This guy UNDERSTANDS; THE DOMINETES WANTS, NEEDS, DESIRES and PLEASURES COME FIRST***
(Do not want to be used/abused by fake Mistresses).
This one communicates well, is truthful, loyal, listens twice as much as talks, hard working at anything this one attempts, but needs in person training here in Michigan (preferred), not long distance!
kinks this one's willing to try/learn;
Some are;
Would like to meet more play partners to be topped for kinks this one's willing to try/learn - Some are;
Event Volunteer and/or Scene sub for, (see wants/Limits)
~ More Impact - spanking, paddling, flogging, whips and canes,,, (OMG - Finger Nails)
~ More CBT, bondage, light rope restraints, harnesses maybe,
~ To experience more electrical play, (in cbt, too), and knife play.
~ In the Future - want to try; sounding, edging, hot wax play, saran wrap, pressure cupping, cold branding, and possible pegging.
Limits
**(HARD NO LIMITS;** NO - Scat/piss, Diapers, Baby play, excessive blood, face slapping, permanent marks/damage, physical/mental damage, narcissist, needles, hooks, piecing, hot branding,
NO CHOKING! No children or animals and/or Economic Abuse). ***
NO CHOKING! No children or animals and/or Economic Abuse). ***
What's new
11/27/23, Have gone to another kink/bdsm website, (look for; justmerw). Last day here is 12/11/23. Good luck all. And Happy Holiday's!!
8/19/25; Presently taken as a in-serve sub for this one's Domme, enjoying builting a dynamic together. One day, one scene at a time.
8/19/25; Presently taken as a in-serve sub for this one's Domme, enjoying builting a dynamic together. One day, one scene at a time.
Member since
Jun 12, 2023
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