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Richlydefined{Gardener}sub female
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Minnesota, United States
Richlydefined{Gardener}
Age
37
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
I'm a big girl, no shame because I'm awesome. If you are; Married, looking for someone to train, want a poly relationship, A long-distance relationship, or an online arrangement *Jedi hand wave* this is not the submissive you're looking for.
For those who cannot hear me in the back (hopefully only due to the volume of the Cantina band and not their inability to read). I'm a submissive, but only to my partner whom I know well and trust implicitly, and even then, only in our private times together, in person. Thank you.
If you'd like to know about me, I invite you to come speak with me. I don't bite (Honestly, I'm not into it.) And I can ramble for hours about nothing at all but I do request that you approach me as a person first. Any who don't will find interactions with me unpleasant. If you expect me to respect you I expect the same in return; we are still people underneath these labels after all.
For those who cannot hear me in the back (hopefully only due to the volume of the Cantina band and not their inability to read). I'm a submissive, but only to my partner whom I know well and trust implicitly, and even then, only in our private times together, in person. Thank you.
If you'd like to know about me, I invite you to come speak with me. I don't bite (Honestly, I'm not into it.) And I can ramble for hours about nothing at all but I do request that you approach me as a person first. Any who don't will find interactions with me unpleasant. If you expect me to respect you I expect the same in return; we are still people underneath these labels after all.
BDSM and me
I am a submissive and I more broadly identify as a sensualist. I have a couple of years of practical experience though only with one partner. At this point, my theoretical knowledge outweighs the practical. I'm not looking for any sort of an online situation. I DO have experience with online dynamics as well (a couple of years worth) but I've found that these do not suit me or my needs as a submissive and any who choose to disrespect or seek to alter my choice in this matter will fall victim to my ire.
Limits
In all honesty, an exhaustive list DOES exist but it is irrelevant to outsiders.
I also feel the need to reiterate here that I am NOT POLY in any way, I respect those who are but will freely admit that I'm inherently selfish when it concerns my partner and this will not ever change.
I also feel the need to reiterate here that I am NOT POLY in any way, I respect those who are but will freely admit that I'm inherently selfish when it concerns my partner and this will not ever change.
What's new
Found my partner who I shall henceforth refer to as "the Gardener".
Update date
Feb 27, 2024
Member since
Dec 25, 2017