Distance and travel

3911 is how many miles there are, one way, between myself and my partner. We talked for about 2.5 months before we decided a meet had to happen and he chose to come here. He'll be back here again in a ...

Sun Nov 10, 2024 5:56 am • 19 Replies • 1778 Views

I'm More Than BDSM

I guess the key SayYesMaam is to steer the conversation with these Doms elsewhere as best we can and if they don't take the hint, either block or don't answer them.

That really is the key, IME many ...

Tue Oct 17, 2023 4:50 pm • 29 Replies • 4034 Views

Your best reply for spam calls.

My grandfather taught me my favorite approach to this, typically they call and ask "How are you today?" Or something like it so we say in our deepest most affected MN accent "Oh, you know I could be d ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 3:30 am • 16 Replies • 1937 Views

Stupid questions for Women

I have a stupid question please...

I believe there is a lot of truth in the maxim that men’s brains are led by their dicks. We are easily and quickly aroused and then find it hard to ignore this pr ...

Mon Jul 17, 2023 8:33 pm • 83 Replies • 15618 Views

Any ideas on how to kill 8 hours in Daytona FL?

As someone who lived there and often took weekend trips to Daytona I can tell you those were some of my only enjoyable times in the state. If you aren't looking to hang out in the bar then just head o ...

Mon Jun 26, 2023 6:20 pm • 12 Replies • 2652 Views

Making the first move

Preference? I'd PREFER that they come to me. I tend to be quiet and observant in public more often than not, people find me intimidating because my face can be severe (the RBF is strong with this one) ...

Sun May 28, 2023 12:00 am • 26 Replies • 5436 Views

Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

Nobody is going to be able to tell you exactly how to do this but I can tell you how I have dealt with very similar situations over the years.

First I reassess my feelings. Can I have a strictly fr ...

Sat Apr 22, 2023 11:07 pm • 33 Replies • 6474 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Just like someone does not have to justify their rejection of another person in a face to face conversation and can choose to simply ignore them and/or walk away they can choose here to simply block s ...

Fri Mar 31, 2023 5:41 pm • 34 Replies • 7441 Views

Where do you find them?

Had one once in real life. We started as vanilla bf/gf and discovered the life together. Lasted two years.

Fri Mar 24, 2023 5:16 pm • 11 Replies • 2574 Views

Why are you awake?

I have always kept odd hours because my brain doesn't quit. Most of my homework as a teen was completed between 2-4AM in a fugue of last minute inspiration. Too often I fall asleep thinking about some ...

Tue Dec 06, 2022 9:07 am • 10 Replies • 2188 Views