SmilesEight
dom male

Redlands, California, United States
Age
50
About me
5'8" 165 lbs Asian
BDSM and me
I'm a strong, confident, positive, active man. Looking for a positive, energetic, active, female fuck toy companion. Looking to develop a loving relationship for fun, short term, or long term.

I had known about my dominant personality for a long time. I had the desire since six years old, which had confused me at that time. After adulthood, I purchased toys to introduce into vanilla relationships, but none gone down this path. After experienced BDSM relationships, I realized that BDSM is the lifestyle for me. I had been in three BDSM relationships, ranging from a few weeks to seven years. Of course, like most people, I would prefer a life-long relationship, but we'll have to see if we can get there with our attraction and chemistry.

I'm a control Dom and amused (turned on) to getting my way. So I expect obedience and a desire to please. I love naturally submissive gals. I will use you as a fuck toy, but love you at the same time. I will change you for me/us if I see areas of improvement. When we are together, I will protect you and keep you safe. The type of girls I like are in my blog ( https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=167830 ). I'm open to all race.

Feel free to message me. I don't have any complexity regarding traditional male/female behaviors, such as the male should initiate. You'd win brownie points if you message me first. And, yes, I like brownies.

I will send you my face pic if you ask for it. I only play with real people. So be willing to prove who you are. I will be happy to prove who I am as well. I'm willing to start online for us to get to know each other a little first.

I'm a Computer Scientist and work weekdays in the healthcare industry. Outside of work, I have an active lifestyle. Some vanilla things I enjoy to help get conversations going:

Anime
Beach (grew up in a beach city, so I need to get out to the ocean here and there)
Biking
Food/Drink exploration
Games (League of Legends, tactical shooters). I only play with friends and people I know, because I have responsibilities and my time is limited. It's a social thing for me.
Gym
Hiking
Photography
Psychology Discussion (MBTI, etc.)
Movies (scifi, action, rom com, thriller, etc.)
Play sports
Racing (actual track racing, not street racing, although I haven't been in a while)
Skating (used to play roller hockey)
Snowboarding
Techno (EDM)
Technology
Traveling (I have IG, if you want to see some of my travel pics)
It's interesting that my test results (below) shows "non-monogamist" even though I have never had a polygamist relationship before. I always commit to monogamist for the right person and am loyal. And I'll consider polygamist for the right people.

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Dominant
100% Owner
99% Master/Mistress
98% Degrader
97% Rigger
90% Non-monogamist
87% Primal (Hunter)
86% Sadist
84% Daddy/Mommy
82% Brat Tamer
77% Experimentalist
57% Voyeur
46% Ageplayer
27% Exhibitionist
5% Masochist
3% Pet
3% Vanilla
2% Switch
1% Slave
1% Degradee
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Girl/Boy
0% Submissive
0% Rope Bunny
0% Brat
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=1720906
Limits
No cutting and mutilations of body.
What's new
Been away from BDSM communities for 6 years, because a wonderful submissive little girl came into my life. When we met, she was in her early 20's and we had a 20 years age gap. Now that she's all grown up, she's ready to start a vanilla family. We had the most wonderful time of our lives and separated with strong urge for each other still. But now, it's time for me to start with another submissive girl, a slave, and/or a little girl.
Update date
Sep 18, 2023
Member since
Jul 23, 2023
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