I’m originally from Iran but live in netherlands for now. I’m an aspiring artist, maybe one day you will read my graphic novel (no it is not sexual at all.)
I’m in a career change path currently, trying to get out of retail and fully get into art. I love history, literature, art, travelling. Mostly when I travel I stop and sketch scenes and buildings or if we are in Rome statues. I guess I wont be a good traveling company if you want to walk because I stop every second to paint something.
I’m agnostic, don't care about your religion but if you consider yourself a muslim do not approach me. My life in Iran has traumatised me enough on that front and I do not wish to get into a relationship with someone who believes in that religion.
I’m bratty, especially if I feel ignored, I will force you to notice me and if you don't handle my brattiness properly, I will leave. I dont need to be tamed, and I dont want to be tamed. I enjoy my sarcasm and talking back. I will shut it down for a full session if you put me in my place but tomorrow is a new day. Dont assume you got rid of my attitude because I was obedient for a day. Dont approach me if your goal is changing my bratty personality.
I’m more interested in mental and psychological aspect of submission, meaning the act or the task does not matter much, if you are dominant and your tone is convincing enough I will melt and do lots of things, sometimes an eyebrow raise could be enough to shut doen my bratty side.
I have adhd and making decisions is hard for me in general so I would appreciate a total power exchange with a disciplined mentor-like personality, someone who can make my daily decisions. but it is not mandatory, I have lived so far on my own, can do a relationship without power exchange too. I care more about a genuine attraction, I have to like you and you have to like me back. It is not a kinky exploration game for me.
Kinks I enjoy: edgeplay, orgasm control or denial (that depends on you), some sorts of humiliation(not all), spanking, some role plays (especially teacher, student). That is all I remember for now but as I said I am more turned on mentally. I could be open to other things if you can make me.
No anal ever. I have a tailbone injury. You cannot push this limit ever!
Nothing in public, discreet teasing that only us will know about, are okay but no one else needs to know the nature of our dynamic.
No blood, no scat. No needle, no nipple clamps. I do not have a high pain threshold, if you are a sadist and you assumed my brattiness means i am ready for all kinds of punishments then i have bad news for you. I talk back a lot but I wont tolerate extreme pain.
If you want total power exchange then I have some limits for that, your power can never decide to reduce my painting time.