Using people’s given name

I understand your discomfort. I would just say that, sometimes, people use this as a way of showing closeness and connection, in a careless and casual way. That high school mentality. I do not know if ...

Mon Dec 16, 2024 3:29 am • 14 Replies • 525 Views

Cancel of Auto Renew

I Second this. please ensure it is easy to not have Automatic renewal.

Thu Dec 12, 2024 6:00 am • 6 Replies • 273 Views

Frustrated

I have been there. Still with him (together 35 years) , love him to bits, also my best friend.

I wanted more, and more. And he didn't. The only solution : talk, communicate,share, be open. In the e ...

Wed Dec 11, 2024 6:57 am • 20 Replies • 793 Views

Observation about getting over someone

How long's a piece of string?

Relationship is used widely to mean very very different things.

And the kink world is notorious for the candy shop approach of picking things up, being 'deadly seri ...

Sun Dec 08, 2024 4:36 am • 11 Replies • 580 Views

Obedience

Lambsone, i think this truly is as long as a piece of string, and you do run the risk of prying into people's privacy here.

If you think about obedience, it's literally: i say, you do. I have alway ...

Thu Dec 05, 2024 6:19 am • 54 Replies • 1943 Views

Stigmatized Vocations

You want something Stigmatized?

Try this: Being a Dom when working a low/mid level retail job.

There's something no one wants a part of. Everyone thinks every Dom (just the males mind you) s ...

Wed Dec 04, 2024 5:23 am • 13 Replies • 632 Views

Stigmatized Vocations

What an interesting question and not something I've ever thought about.

I've been involved with people from all kinds of backgrounds and careers/vocations. From unemployed on long term sick leave ...

Wed Nov 27, 2024 4:32 am • 13 Replies • 632 Views

True Slave Training Is .....

I think all Ds and Ms is about finding someone with whom your energies and desires align. We all want different things. And training/alignment can be about so many different things.

I love the tho ...

Mon Nov 25, 2024 11:29 pm • 16 Replies • 869 Views

Jeeze

Fake Doms are almost preferable to yapping virtue signalling "Real" Doms.

Both thrive on the same drama.

Fake doms are bottom feeders at worst, idiots at best. You want a bit of kinky sex with ...

Mon Nov 25, 2024 3:06 am • 36 Replies • 2681 Views

New Online Master/Sub Relationship

I'm sorry you are feeling this. I have been there. And there are, sadly, many men (and women I presume) who play these online games and do not treat people well, do not treat them as real people, with ...

Fri Nov 22, 2024 4:36 am • 6 Replies • 468 Views