Hi. This is Captain Tortuga. I am checking out the site as an alternative to FetLife which seems to have gone downhill drastically over the past 5 years. I've been in the lifestyle for about 11 years now, however have not been very active for the past few years.
For several years I threw large extravagant orgy parties in the up state of South Carolina. They were crossover events between the swingers community and the BDSM community and were radically all inclusive. They were a lot of fun and also a lot of work! I would like to eventually restart those events in or near Columbia South Carolina, but for right now I'm neck deep in the home repair business I started 4 years ago and don't really have time.
I'm single and not looking to change that anytime soon. I enjoy the community and events and hanging out with kinky friends.
If you like to play with power tools I have a pretty well equipped wood shop, and always enjoy collaborating with other makers, and/or helping other people create something of their own. If you would like to play in the woodshop (not a euphemism ?), Hit me up and let's have some fun!
I'm pretty much a slut. Very voyeuristic. Gentle Dom with Daddy vibes. A fan of most things Taboo. Mostly hetero, but sort of Pan? I have had a lot of fun experiences with people of multiple genders, but I've never really dated them. ?. Context is kinda everything.
Negativity, melodrama, arrogance, and people who think they've got it all figured out. Cuckolding.