Zaptivate
dom male

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Brant, Ontario, Canada
Relationship status
Single
About me
Just a guy that loves music, leatherwork, vinyl collecting, lakes and rivers, campfires, astrophotography and adventures to unknown areas at random times. Road trip!

I'm 6'4 and 225lbs.  I'm great at catching ceiling spiders, getting cobwebs, reaching things on the top shelves, putting stars on Christmas trees and looking for lost friends in a crowd.

Currently in a battle with Cancer and doing well.  I feel fantastic both physically and mentally.  Please don't judge me by my diagnosis.  Cancer is something I have, it's not who I am.  If you have any questions please, please ask before you assume I'm damaged goods.
BDSM and me
I'm a Daddy Dom at heart with a playful sadistic side. Love doing most forms of play, but the violet wand is the one I'm most skilled at. Love manhandling my partner in a playful way. Scenes to me are a time to have fun so there's usually some giggling going on. Sensual play is also a favorite of mine.

I'm a Dominant, but I'm not domineering.  There is a difference.  I'm very patient, generally laid back and tend to have a smile on my face.  

Consent is very important to me.  An enthusiastic yes is a yes, coercion is NOT consent.
Limits
Kids, scat, racial play, animals... I'll think of more as the time goes on
Update date
Feb 9, 2024
Member since
Feb 9, 2024
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