I am who I am. I came to BDSM because of what Trauma changed my brain to be. I can not live the vanilla life and have a divorce to prove it. I am Dominant in all aspects of life. It isn't something I can easily turn off but have had to learn to control it.
When we find what we truly need things fall into place. It is that search for balance and happiness that matters.
We all have our own kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. Some are not spoken unless the other party enjoys them. For you never want to scare off a potential life partner over something unsubstantial.
The Doms job is to take care of their sub, make decisions that are in the best interest of the sub even if they may not be the best for the Dom, and ultimately work for their subs happiness. A true sub does the exact same thing for their Dom so if the Dom isn't thinking about the subs best interest then no one is.
When you take that concept to the limit you get TPE. Where all decisions are made by the Dominant yet they must still be in the best interest of the submissive.
I have always enjoyed TPE and am hoping to find someone that likes that too.
I have taken up song writing as a hobby. Have always been a good poet so hopefully the songwriting follows.
The stars pass in the sky
As time goes on by
Do we see where we go
Do we even know
Such a journey that is life
Full of joy, sadness, and strife
Where do we belong
Where do we go wrong
We come from all different places
Yet so much is the same chases
To find who we need
To give in mind, body, and deed
The journey will be hard to see
Do you fight or do you flee
Can you stand by me
Oh what oh what will be