juliankay

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Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey, United States
About me
I am a 49-year-old Sensually Dominant. I've been a part of the BDSM community, off and on, for about 20 years, all of it as a Sensual Dom- Mentor -Master.

I am a Sensual Dominant Male who finds deep satisfaction in the dynamics of D/s, sensory play, and mental play. My journey in Sensual Dominance is a lifestyle, not a hobby, and I take it seriously.  To me the MENTAL connection is paramount to my experience, making virtual or long-distance arrangements something to consider—phone and FaceTime will be practiced maintaining our connection as Dom & Submissive.

I do label myself as that Caregiver Dom." This emphasizes the nurturing and protective aspects of the dynamic, highlighting my role in providing care, guidance, and support to my submissive.
 
Yet I seek a partner who is ready to engage in a profound mental and physical bond, exploring the depths of our dynamic in person. However, I am always open to meaningful conversations and connections with a woman who is open to friendship first, then allowing fate to take over. I have often been described as a "Strict Nurturing type," not in the context of roleplay, but as a sensually cerebral, caring authority figure. I take pride in being a sensual daddy with a somewhat strict approach.

I greatly appreciate service-oriented submissives who embody high standards of conduct, maturity, obedience, loyalty, discipline, and respect given in return. I cherish the profound bond that develops between a Dom and a sub. I care deeply for my submissives and hold immense respect for the role they have entrusted to me. The thrill of mental play, the vulnerability, and the deep connection formed through shared experiences are what I love most about this lifestyle.

I am looking for a woman to surrender in a fun exchange of power; to give her submission to someone who sees it as a gift. I am not into 24/7 dynamics and do not seek to control your life. I'm seeking an independent submissive and/or baby girl in private.

I am most attracted to the humblest and genuinely submissive women. Genuine and natural submission is what I seek, as opposed to those who may be switches or tops merely looking to experiment. My ideal sub is someone for whom submission is a true and sincere expression of their identity deep within.

If you are a submissive woman who resonates with my approach and inner values, and you are seeking a meaningful and serious dynamic, I would love to get to know you. Let's explore the possibilities of a deep and respectful bond, now and for our future. I am not interested in hookups or elongated cyber/text sexual play, so please do not message me asking for it. In time, I will voice-verify in real time.
BDSM and me
I am that one man who highlights the intellectual and sensual aspects of my approach, emphasizing my ability to create deeply stimulating and arousing experiences through mental and emotional connections. This Sensual yet very Mental Dom needs to fulfill his erotic desires, which that submissive will bring about other possibilities. I'm looking for a respectful and equal relationship, with this dynamic sexually, for now. I am not interested in pick-up play or elongated conversations via email or text.

You must be articulate, know yourself, we can discuss what you like, talk about what you want, and i can teach you to know how to say it. I am only interested in women who can truly understand how to be submissive to one man, not subs seeking attention or 'likes.'
Limits
My Personal Hard Limits: Non-Consensual Acts: Consent is paramount and non-negotiable. Blood Play: Scat Play: Bestiality: Extreme Humiliation: Emotional or Mental Abuse - Not interested in poly relationships.
What's new
I'm in the process of reestablishing my life after a traumatic personal loss. I'm looking forward to big changes and new opportunities. As part of this journey, I'm excited to connect with submissives in this community and explore meaningful and fulfilling dynamics.

If you are ready to explore a meaningful and intense connection with a Dominant who will guide and cherish you, let's connect and see where this journey can take us. Serious inquiries only, please. Be prepared to discuss your experience and desires openly.
Update date
Aug 1, 2024
Member since
Jun 13, 2024
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