'Limits'?...I would like to think I know my limits personally. The part that makes BDSM exciting is for others to explore those limits without knowing what they are. Since I only 'think' I know my limits doesn't mean I truly 'know' them, I encourage my partner to push those limits thats where we will find out for ourselves what they truly are....enjoy the unknown dont limit yourself or me unnecessarily...Now hopefully 'Death' would be an extreme but with all things in 'Life' the risk is always looming and should not be feared but not taunted either. If we dont challenge our limits we are merely existing and not truly living.