In a polyamorous relationship
"If you can't run, you walk, and if you can't walk, you crawl, and if you can't do that... you find someone to carry you." - Malcolm Reynolds, Firefly
"You have to know what you stand for, not just what you stand against." Laurie Halse Anderson
“Let people feel the weight of who you are and let them deal with it” – John Eldridge
Professional Chaos Terror Gremlin.
- Norse Pagan
- Blind as a Rab-Bat (without the cool echolocation abilities).
I am approximately 90% curiosity, 10% caffeine, and 100% unapologetically myself.
I'm loud. I'm passionate. I'm sarcastic. I'm a walking contradiction of soft heart and sharp tongue wrapped in organized chaos. If I care about something, prepare yourself for an enthusiastic TED Talk that absolutely no one asked for. I collect obscure facts like a dragon hoards treasure and have been known to disappear down research rabbit holes for six hours because I needed to know one very specific thing.
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My hobbies include
- Learning literally anything and everything.
- Deep diving into True Crime documentaries at 3 AM.
- Obsessing over Norse Paganism, history, and mythology.
- Falling headfirst into genealogy and ancestry research.
- Questioning everything.
- Making people laugh.
- Collecting random knowledge that may or may not ever be useful.
- Being an absolute menace when I'm excited about something.
- Science, Psychology, History, Art, Music are my favorite things.
- I am a song writer
- I am a painter
- I am a published poet/author
I value Character, Honor, Integrity, Loyalty, Respect, Trust, Education, Service, and Merit above all else. These aren't cute buzzwords I sprinkle around to sound profound, they are the foundation of who I am and the standards I hold for myself and the people I allow into my life.
I am intentionally selective about who I surround myself with. If our values don't align, that's okay, we simply aren't each other's people.
I have zero tolerance for ignorance, cruelty, dishonesty, manipulation, or people who mistake confidence for character. Being an asshole isn't a personality trait, and being brutally honest doesn't give anyone permission to be brutal.
I'm also a mirror.
Treat me with kindness, respect, enthusiasm, and authenticity, and you'll get exactly that in return. Treat me poorly, and you'll meet a version of me you probably won't enjoy. If I'm the villain in someone's story, chances are they handed me the script and were shocked when I learned my lines.
I do not sugarcoat things. If you ask for my opinion, you're going to get the truth, not the socially acceptable version that makes everyone comfortable. I believe honesty is one of the greatest forms of respect you can offer another person. You don't have to agree with me, but you can absolutely expect me to be genuine.
I'm a no nonsense human being. Life is too short for performative bullshit, fake personalities, or people who only wear their values when it's convenient. Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Take accountability when you're wrong. Be teachable. Be curious. Grow.
I'm fiercely protective of my peace, my time, and the people I love.
I love good conversations that make my brain happy. Tell me about your latest hyperfixation. Teach me something new. Debate mythology with me. Send me down a True Crime rabbit hole. Talk to me about history, psychology, science, or the strange little things that make you light up when you talk about them.
At the end of the day, I am simply a loud, passionate, slightly chaotic terror gremlin with an endless desire to learn, an unhealthy amount of curiosity, and a refusal to shrink myself to make other people comfortable.
Stay weird. Stay honest. Don't be an asshole.
🚫 Not interested in conversations that support hate, racism or violence. Let’s create a space filled with laughter, kindness, and mutual respect! 🚫
Some girls collect shoes, I collect protocols, Leather traditions, and entirely too many opinions about bootblacking.
My journey through BDSM, Gorean philosophy, and the Leather community has been equal parts beautiful chaos, personal growth, and saying, "Well... that's going in my slave journal."
I am passionate about power exchange, service, ritual, tradition, and the history that paved the way for the communities we enjoy today. Give me deep conversations about dynamics, consent, Gorean philosophy, Leather history, and community education, and I'll happily talk your ear off (consider yourself warned).
I'm a submissive with a curious mind, a servant's heart, and enough sass to keep life interesting. I believe submission is an intentional part of my soul, service is an art form, and growth never really stops, no matter how many titles, collars, or lessons you've collected along the way.
I adore old traditions, meaningful rituals, and creating spaces where people can learn, connect, and feel seen. Whether I'm covered in boot polish, buried in a mountain of journals and educational resources, or debating the finer points of protocol over coffee, I'm exactly where I'm meant to be.
Fair warning: I am equal parts sweet and sarcastic. I can discuss ancient Gorean customs one moment and send you memes the next.
My kink isn't just what I do, it's woven into how I learn, serve, love, and grow. This isn't a destination for me. It's a lifelong adventure filled with Leather, laughter, community, and probably more collars than my closet reasonably allows.
So pull up a chair, mind your manners, and don't forget to hydrate. Kink is a marathon, not a sprint.
Service Specialties
Service is one of my greatest passions. I believe service is both an art and a love language, intentional, thoughtful, and tailored to those I serve. My specialties include:
Domestic Service
* Cooking & Meal Preparation
* Cleaning & Household Management
* Bath Service
* Coffee & Tea Service
* Scheduling & Calendar Management
* Note Taking & Documentation
* Research & Information Gathering
* Accounting & Financial Record Keeping
Leather & Lifestyle Service
* Bootblacking
* Cigar Service
* Pleasure Service
* Protocol & Ritual Oriented Service
* Power Exchange Support
* Teaching Educational Classes
* Training Slaves and Submissives
Administrative & Community Service
* Event Planning & Coordination
* Hosting Socials, Educational Events, and Gatherings
* Organizational Management
* Community Education & Resource Development
House of Koch Roles
* First Girl of the House of Koch
* Financial Treasurer of the House of Koch
* Resident Bootblack
* Leather & Gorean Educator
I take immense pride in being of service, not simply in completing tasks, but in creating comfort, structure, beauty, and intentionality through the things I do. Whether I'm polishing boots, preparing a bath, organizing an event, balancing spreadsheets, or serving a perfectly prepared cup of tea, I strive to bring care, excellence, and authenticity into every act of service.
Service isn't something I perform. It's something I live.
It is different for each indificual person.
Eager to make new submissive friends. Hopefully they are out there.