KWYA

dom male

32

Single

** Updated profile**

I am a driven individual. I know what I want out of life and I will get it. I enjoy the simple things in life going for a drive, a good dessert. Sitting outside on a cool evening.

Being that, I am very driven. I really don’t put up with bullshit. I am very direct in who I am. I do not pick up subtle hints very well. so it’s better if you are direct with me as well. I also believe in being honest, I would rather hurt your feelings, then lie to you.

I am very big on communication because I’m not a mind reader I want to know what you’re thinking. I don’t want you to play games with me. I want you to talk to me. 

I work to mentally strenuous jobs both in sales that eats up a lot of my time per week, but that doesn’t mean that I am not willing to teatime for someone who shows effort and interest.
due to my job, I have to be very extroverted and very outgoing, but I am not that way off the clock at home. I don’t drink I don’t party. I am a very introverted person. Meaning my idea of a good night is sitting home watching something on TV eating a steak. Even though I’m in my early 30s I’ve been told that I act like I’m older. The movies and TV shows I watch are usually 15 years older or more. The music I listened to came out in the 60s and 70s I’m also an avid listener to comedy and most of it is politically Incorrect I don’t fall in line with most people, my age I think for myself and come up with my own opinions I honestly believe that everyone in this country has the right to freedom and your freedom starts where mine ends and vice versa meaning that if whatever you’re doing, doesn’t affect me then go for it

I can’t say this enough I don’t play games and I don’t have time for you to do if we start talking and then you randomly stop. I’m going to try to reach out to figure out what’s wrong. If you don’t wanna talk to me, just say it!! I want something serious and long-term

Ever since arriving in the lifestyle in 2016 I have learned who I am and what I want. I take this lifestyle very seriously and expect nothing less from somebody that I’m with. Some of my tastes in this lifestyle, run to the extreme for some people. (feel free to reach out to me if you would like to know more regarding this) and in my experience, what is best for me is being in a strict dynamic where I am in control. I use the control to help the person I’m with reach your level of excellence that she would not reach without me. The best dynamic set up for me would be a total power exchange type of dynamic.

Within the last several months, I’ve discovered I don’t want a vanilla relationship. I’ve been put through ringer enough times at each time I get vulnerable. It gets used against me. Just figured that I would warn any potential people now because you may tell me you’re different, but I’ve been hurt multiple times by multiple people who know my story and still chose to hurt me in a different way. I don’t have trust issues I have I’ve seen this before and I’m not playing this game.


I understand that everybody’s different, so I am open to talking to you and seeing if anybody is a fit for me. I try not to confine myself off because experience has taught me that what you think might not work might be the thing that you have been looking for that will last a lifetime.

Over the last couple years, I have discovered certain things that I didn’t think I would be interested in that I find myself wanting to indulge in. Some of these things include having multiple slaves (I’m OK with being monogamous. I’ve never tried this before so it’s more of a fantasy.) Some of these things kinda run to the extremes for some people they include getting my ass eaten out, and giving golden showers

I know I’m not perfect and I know no one else is, I am accountable for my actions and the choices that I make, and would like to find somebody who is as well.

Being that, I live in a very unpopulated area, I’m not opposed to long distance I have made that work in the past.

i’m looking for a total power exchange, that being said if you ask me to totally control you that’s what I’m gonna do. When I control someone I do what is in the best interest of her. Sometimes the person I’m controlling doesn’t realize what I’m doing is in their best interest

i’ve learned a lot about myself in the last few years and yes, I’ve been put through the ringer. I’m OK with being by myself. I’ve been by myself for a long time now. just want something that will actually last I want to invest time and effort with somebody that I don’t have to worry about disappearing on me or cheating on me (Caught my ex in bed with somebody that she said was not even close to competition have no idea how long she was cheating on me) I know everyone says they’re not like everyone else, but I need someone to prove that and I know that that takes time and I know that the way to prove that takes time and effort and I’m willing to put that in if someone else is

I will not do nothing illegal or that will cause permanent damage in anyway to myself or my partner I can’t believe I have to say this, because I thought it was obvious but under age is something I will not deal with so if you’re under 18 move on. Also, if you lie to me gone, it doesn’t matter about what I don’t wanna have to second-guess you every time you tell me something.

I have learned a lot about myself ever since I got into this lifestyle. I am hoping to find something serious and long-term. I also believe that communication is crucial  for a dynamic to work and become frustrated when communication is not reciprocal. If I am what you’re looking for, please feel free to reach out 

I was talking to the traditionalist and things didn’t work out, so I’m actually looking again

August 2024