I am a driven individual. I know what I want out of life and I will get it. I enjoy the simple things in life going for a drive, a good dessert. Sitting outside on a cool evening.
Being that, I am very driven. I really don’t put up with bullshit. I am very direct in who I am. I do not pick up subtle hints very well. so it’s better if you are direct with me as well. I also believe in being honest, I would rather hurt your feelings, then lie to you.
I am very big on communication because I’m not a mind reader I want to know what you’re thinking. I don’t want you to play games with me. I want you to talk to me.
Ever since arriving in the lifestyle in 2016 I have learned who I am and what I want. I take this lifestyle very seriously and expect nothing less from somebody that I’m with. Some of my tastes in this lifestyle, run to the extreme for some people. (feel free to reach out to me if you would like to know more regarding this) and in my experience, what is best for me is being in a strict dynamic where I am in control. I use the control to help the person I’m with reach your level of excellence that she would not reach without me. The best dynamic set up for me would be a total power exchange type of dynamic.
in my experience, I am not a good fit for a daddy Dom. I am normally too strict for that to work and my personality just doesn’t work well with it either.
I understand that everybody’s different, so I am open to talking to you and seeing if anybody is a fit for me. I try not to confine myself off because experience has taught me that what you think might not work might be the thing that you have been looking for that will last a lifetime.
Over the last couple years, I have discovered certain things that I didn’t think I would be interested in that I find myself wanting to indulge in. Some of these things include having multiple slaves (I’m OK with being monogamous. I’ve never tried this before so it’s more of a fantasy.) Some of these things kinda run to the extremes for some people they include getting my ass eaten out, and giving golden showers
I know I’m not perfect and I know no one else is, I am accountable for my actions and the choices that I make, and would like to find somebody who is as well.
Being that, I live in a very unpopulated area, I’m not opposed to long distance I have made that work in the past.
i’m looking for a total power exchange, that being said if you ask me to totally control you that’s what I’m gonna do. When I control someone I do what is in the best interest of her. Sometimes the person I’m controlling doesn’t realize what I’m doing is in their best interest
I will not do nothing illegal or that will cause permanent damage in anyway to myself or my partner I can’t believe I have to say this, because I thought it was obvious but under age is something I will not deal with so if you’re under 18 move on. Also, if you lie to me gone, it doesn’t matter about what I don’t wanna have to second-guess you every time you tell me something.
I have learned a lot about myself ever since I got into this lifestyle. I am hoping to find something serious and long-term. I also believe that communication is crucial for a dynamic to work and become frustrated when communication is not reciprocal. If I am what you’re looking for, please feel free to reach out to me and let’s see if we are a fit for each other.
Update February 2026
Still here, hoping to find my person. I’ve also been dieting and have lost 40 pounds still more to go, but I decided to share this so that you could see that while I am requiring discipline from the person that I’m with I also have it for myself.
update July 2026
if you’re not gonna be serious about this please don’t waste my time. I’ve given people multiple chances that have lied to me or Misrepresented they are and I’m tired of it. I’m also working 8 1/2 hours a day plus travel time five days a week so on a time for drama or bullshit if you want this and you want me, I will gladly make time for you if you don’t I don’t have time for games
I’m not necessarily looking for anything at this point I’ve been put through the ringer so to speak when it comes to dynamics just because I have dealt with a number of women on here that say they’re serious but then disappear like I’m nothing I’m tired of putting in a bunch of effort I wouldn’t say no to talking to people and developing a dynamic, but please be serious. I don’t have time to waste and I don’t have the energy to go through another fake one