Wimsical

sub female

39

Single

I have been away from the kink world for awhile but I’m ready to dip my toes back in.

My kinks center around a power exchange dynamic. For me, a D/s or M/s dynamic is the cake and the kinks/fetishes are the icing and sugary toppings. My ideal cake is a monogamous long-term power exchange relationship. I think the exact flavor this cake will be depends on the bakers and ingredients involved. I am drawn to a more TPE M/s recipe but think all cakes need the right amount of vanilla. I am a masochist who enjoys nipple play and orgasm control. Words turn me on. I prefer a strict, strong and sadistic Dom that can also be gentle and caring.

Baking takes prep work and time. I think it’s important to make a strong connection and bond before the dynamic even starts. I must trust the person I will submit to. Honest communication is necessary to keep the cake from collapsing.

I want my cake in and out of the bedroom. The dynamic is about much more than just sex and kink for me. I want a dominant that will push and challenge me in kink and in life. I want to continue to grow as a submissive and a person with the guidance of a dominant.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
93% Masochist
91% Degradee
86% Primal (Prey)
84% Slave
55% Experimentalist
48% Rigger
44% Pet
42% Ageplayer
40% Daddy/Mommy
37% Brat
36% Boy/Girl
28% Voyeur
25% Switch
12% Vanilla
11% Primal (Hunter)
10% Dominant
7% Exhibitionist
5% Brat tamer
3% Sadist
1% Non-monogamist
1% Master/Mistress
0% Degrader
0% Owner

I was introduced to the BDSM lifestyle through literature, NOT Fifty Shades, and felt a connection with it ever since. I have been exploring my submissive side since the beginning of 2018 and am positive this is the lifestyle for me.

No Permanant marks. No Scat. Still exploring and finding out what my true limits are.

Work and life are hectic at the moment so don't have a lot of time for kink but want to keep a foot in the door.

Jun 1, 2022

Feb 13, 2018