I am an English woman with a good portion of Irish, born in the UK, married to a disabled veteran. I have no plans to leave him. We live in the United States.
He is not against me being online - but it is complicated. Because of this, I will not discuss my life with just anyone, only with the Man I give my trust to, and that takes time. I have not found him yet.
A description of myself: a submissive with masochistic tendencies and needs. I am very changeable; it just depends on how I feel and who I feel it with. The swish against my skin of a flogger and the delicious pain of a whip are both pleasing to me - as is just providing service to a dominant man. The right man. A patient dominant who gives me loving friendship and contact as well as the care that a submissive needs. A true Dominant knows exactly what that means.
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Bright, well-read, grew up in the tropics, travelled the world. Possibly a touch too adventurous at times, but that is the way I was brought up - not to be scared. Easy going. Sensual, so I've been told. Sensitive. A loving and considerate friend. That about sums me up as a woman and a person. Now to the BDSM side.
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Training is something I do not require, although I am open to conversation as to whether how I have been trained is sufficient, from a dominant who knows what he’s talking about. I am always willing to listen. This is only my impression of my experience in the world of dominance and submission. I am definitely not an ingénue and would quite likely strain at the leash if treated as such! Even in the written word.
The BDSM lifestyle - and my experiences in it before I came to the United States - are subjects I would enjoy discussing, should I get that far with the person who turns me on as much as I need him to. I have had some very memorable times.
Please understand if I don't immediately reply to a personal contact. It is only because things can sometimes get a bit overwhelming on here - and in daily life. Patience is much appreciated. I am not just looking after myself.
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I do not give out personal information about my life to just anyone! Some sensitive matters I will not share. Other details I will willingly share, and give of myself. I have put up a few images of myself.
Hopefully I have provided a slight insight into me and my life.