Retired guy that has a wonderful lady. She is my world. I'm here hoping to learn more and different things that we can try when we are playing. For me it's all about keeping it interesting and not falling into that repetitive rut. Really would like to chat about what excelled for you and your partner. I'm a strong believer in "after care" and quiet time.
Blindfolds!!!!!! Take away the sight and awaken all the other senses. With that being said, BDSM is such a mental game really. Belief, trust, faith, honest open communications are an ABSOLUTE MUST for me! For someone to truly give that control, they are placing 100% of their faith and trust in you. To me, that is to be honored at all costs.
Looking forward to my next visit to see my lady!!!!!!
12-15 Just returned from spending several days with my lady and as always had a wonderful time. I think one of the most fun things we did other than the dinners and just spending time together was when I tied her to a straight back wooden chair. Again, with her being blindfolded she had no idea what would be touched, kissed, licked, nibbled or clamped next. But when she was properly secured, and her breathing had changed to the heavier side, the wand was applied to her clit, and it caused her to have 7 rather intense orgasms before being released from the chair.