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sub female

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“I know that what you call 'God' really exists, but not in the form you think; God is primal cosmic energy, the love in your body, your integrity, and your perception of the nature in you and outside of you.” ― Wilhelm Reich

Dreamer, professional writer, lover of books, art, music, film, nature and a good morning coffee. If you are an artist or appreciate art, we will get along well (also can I see your art? will always be the first question I ask, hehe).

Brunette short hair, tattoos, slightly curvy but athletic due to circus and acrobatics classes. Queer, fluctuating between she/they pronouns, progressive as hell. Any people who are queerphobic, transphobic, sex worker-phobic, TERF's and/or SWERF's please go away. You fail to acknowledge that the comforts we have as BDSM practitioners were fought for by these minority groups, and thus probably don't deserve to be here (but also, please never message me as we would not get along and no, you cannot change my mind).

If you're going to reach out to me, for friendship or connection, please put in some effort. One word/one line messages will probably not receive a response. Tell me what piques your interest!

First and foremost, I am a submissive. Submission comes very naturally to me, and I have always felt this way. I am experienced in D/s and power exchange dynamics, which is what I desire out of a relationship. While I am interested in many facets of BDSM, including (somewhat heavy) masochism, humiliation/degradation, etc. – these things often intertwine with my submissive nature as someone who wishes to devote themselves to their top.

I'm slightly old-school in my BDSM desires. I'm interested in building a relationship from the ground-up, lots of the old leather protocol-type D/s relationship is what I am used to. I'm not interested in collars or honorifics until a relationship has been established – I believe, just as submission is a gift to be given by the submissive, that honorifics are given once a person is proven worthy to have them.

I am currently interested in seeking out a Dom/me with a sadistic streak, of which gender is not necessarily important to me, however all of my previous D/s relationships have been with men. I am not interested in playing with people too much younger than me.

- Online dynamics. I live between Australia and the Midwest United States. If you live in these places, lets talk. Otherwise, I'm not interested in an online dynamic. Friendship is okay obviously :)
- DDLG. I'm not interested in "soft daddy doms" or infantilising myself.
- Scat, vore, gore, lots of blood is sometimes not okay for me but it depends on the circumstances.
- Asking me to call you an honorific without even having met you nor established any kind of relationship.
- Collars as a fashion accessory without understanding their significance.

Feb 2, 2025