Ashleythebisub
sub female

Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
Age
21
Relationship status
Single
About me
πŸ’• π“ˆπ’½π“Ž π“ˆπ“‚π“Šπ“‰π“‰π“Ž π“ˆπ“Šπ’·π“‚π’Ύπ“ˆπ“ˆπ’Ύπ“‹β„― πŸ’•

πŸ’œYes, I’m real. No, I’m not for everyone. πŸ’œ
πŸ¦‹ ISFJ-T | Soft & strong in equal measure πŸ¦‹

February 2025 β€” STI Negative πŸ’‰βœ¨

I am looking for a long-term Daddy, Sir, or Mistressβ€”someone dominant who’s okay with me posting pics and videos, playing in public, being watched, and occasionally playing with others (with trust and consent). Someone confident enough to lead, patient enough for my shy side, and curious enough to explore with me.
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πŸ’Œ New-ish to the scene. Learning, growing, curious as hell.
🫣 Socially awkward gremlin energy β€” I won’t talk much till I feel safe. But once I do? I won’t shut up. I bite (but only sometimes 🫦).

I'm a cuddle slut, affection whore, and degradee.

πŸ’— I'm also exploring possibly being a little or middle, please be supportive and not mean πŸ’

I’m still figuring out where I belong, please let me explore that.
No secrets. Talk to me? And the other people I’m seeing know.

I have massive social anxiety, and sometimes I don't know what to say, give me time. I have anxiety and depression if you aren't ok with the odd post, then see ya! I also have a chronic illness so the ways I can show up vary day to day, and sometimes hour to hour.

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πŸ’– I don’t play with people who are drunk or high.
You deserve clarity and consent, and so do I.

πŸ‘΄πŸ» Over 40? Don’t message me trying to hook up. I’m into younger Doms (preferably 35 and under).

πŸ‘‘ I want to worship you
πŸ₯Ί Praise kink? Full force
🍭 I will suck your cock like it’s dessert and swallow your cum like its chocolate
Want a brat? You will have to force her to come out to play, she's only seen once I really trust someone.

Punishment turns me on. Say no to me and I will pout and beg.
No, you can’t just β€œtrain me.” Try building trust instead. Try communicating.

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== Results from bdsmtest.org: == (September 7 2025)

100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Rope bunny
100% Submissive
100% Voyeur
100% Exhibitionist
98% Little
97% Non-monogamist
96% Ageplayer
93% Slave
79% Brat
65% Experimentalist
58% Primal (Prey)
35% Pet
11% Vanilla
8% Primal (Hunter)
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Sadist
0% Switch


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❗You will be blocked if:
β€’ You open with explicit messages or demands
β€’ You push for meetups immediately
β€’ You ask for vids/photos without consent
β€’ You act like you’re entitled to my time or body
β€’ You’re weird about my location

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🫢 I’m here for connection, curiosity, and kink β€” not to be anyone’s fantasy without my consent.

🌸 I want to be the reason you have to hide your phone in public.🀭
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Limits
Potential limits.
Soft limits:
Bastinado
Human furniture
Live cam
Mind games/hypnosis
Caning
Chasity play
Public bondage

Hard limits:
public embarrassment
Needle/piercing play
Pony play
Pet play
Furry
Sounding
Mummification
Trampling
Imprisonment
Boot worship
Genital torture
Spirituality
Member since
Feb 2, 2025
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