Normal is overrated.
I am a curvy 5”8 pure red head . Blue eyes and have a very high sex drive. I am adventurous and quirky and like to enjoy everything life has to offer.
I had a life changing moment a few years back, and it made me re think of what I want and what makes me happy.
I’ve rediscovered who I am and who I want to be.
I’ve always made it my mission to make sure the partner got every bit of pleasure I could give, even if it meant forgoing mine. I realised this is why I’ve never felt fulfilled.
Seeing someone take pleasure from me, me giving pleasure, really excites me.
But I have never actually ever cum from intercourse. As for me, making sure they cum is more important. But I want someone to show me it is possible to have both.
I want to be the sub/slave, but I want it on every level and not just for their pleasure.
I want and need someone to see me and my needs in every aspect, and not just in the bedroom.
I have quite a stressful job which I love, but when not working, I just want to be able to forget and serve and not have to think and make decisions and have someone there for me to do those things.
I’m not the best at looking out for me, and is something I’m working on.
But having someone standing behind me in every way Is something I want and need.
I want to say I am looking for a lifestyle, but I think that’s not quite right, as when you find that someone, I think it comes naturally and if it’s something you both want or need then it’s just who you are and doesn’t need labels.
I am relatively new as in I’ve never fully submitted to someone who knows what that would mean.
But life is to short, and now is my time to fully become who I’m meant to be.
BDSM and me
I’m relatively new to the scene, but that is just because I’ve not met the right person who I can lose myself into.
I was born to be a submissive in every aspect and need someone to take the leash.
I need someone who can handle me in every aspect. I want to be controlled and used, and be a perfect submissive but also need someone who cares about my needs and wants.
Limits are anything illegal obviously.
Scat.
And feet. Anything to do with feet. Just please no feet.
Anything else, I’m new,, and I live with the
“try something at least once”
Feet.
Bodily fluids (excluding cum)
I didn’t think it would be necessary but obviously nothing illegal.
What a difference a month can make.
I read back on my profile and realised how naive I was coming into this.
While I still full believe who I am, I understand more deeply what that means.
24/7/365 TPE is what I need, what I crave and what I want.
It is so much more than I could have ever dreamed about.
What is awakening in me is something amazing.