In a monogamous relationship
I am married & have children.
That part of my life always comes first.
I love reading that’s where I spend most of my free time. I enjoy baking, being outdoors when the weather is nice, and also just watching a tv show.
If you are married - let me know.
Communication is very important.
I really enjoy the mental control aspect of a dynamic the most. I think the connection that’s built between a Dom & sub is such an amazing thing.
I definitely lean more towards needing a strict & controlling Dom over a soft Dom (absolutely nothing wrong with a soft Dom, just not necessarily what I’m drawn to).
I like the idea of having rules to follow, expectations, being guided, having certain decisions directed (of course, agreed upon), being held accountable when necessary, asking permission for certain things, etc. I like having that structure and knowing what’s expected of me. I enjoy the idea of someone taking the lead and being “in control”, guiding me and pushing me to grow.
Consistency is a big thing for me. I don’t want dominance only when it’s convenient. I want to feel comfortable enough to let go of control, but that kind of trust has to be built. I’m not expecting perfection, but I do value communication, effort and accountability on both sides.
I’m interested in an actual D/s dynamic, not a bedroom role you pick up and put down. 😚
Liars & poor communication. Ruins trust.
Absolutely NO underage, animals, scat, blood, race, financial, wardrobe control or public.