Man in his fifties
Back on stage after a vanilla break (couple relationship).
In social life, I consider myself as very independent, reluctant to any forms of professional authority (I run my own business).
For the rest I like to be among people, I like to be alone, I am friendly but lazy to call or write the first, I'm calm and produce beautiful cold angry, I hate wasting time but I waste, I make stupid jokes, I like to discuss by arguing just against someone, even if that is my opinion, I have some moral values which prevent me from losing me definitively...
My interest about D/S relationships started a long time ago. But not on the BDSM scene, rather evolving only in private with news encounters, casual love affairs ans even within my last life as couple. So I have not a fully engaged BDSM lifestyle but quasi permanent for a long time.
First and foremost BDSM, to me, is not only about sex and pain. BDSM is about deep trust, passion, sensuality, deep sensations, psychology and connection.