I am new to BDSM and looking to start with an online dynamic. I value patience, communication, and trust, and I am interested in learning from someone experienced who respects boundaries, consent, and growth. I am curious, open minded, and intentional about doing this the right way. I am a giant nerd, I like to read, I love to write. I find music healing, and I love to play video games.
BDSM, to me, is about trust, communication, and intention. It is not about extremes but about emotional safety and genuine connection. I value clear boundaries, mutual respect, and enthusiastic consent at all times. Aftercare is a definite must, not optional. I believe power dynamics work best when they are built on honesty, care, and a shared understanding of each other’s needs.
My limits are clear and non negotiable. I am not interested in body writing or extreme degradation. Anything involving children or minors is an absolute hard no in any context. I am still new and exploring, meaning new limits may be discovered. I value respectful dynamics, clear consent, and staying firmly within agreed boundaries at all times.