banba
sub female

Online
Finland
Age
41
Relationship status
Single
About me
I am an easygoing person, usually pretty calm, happy and kind. Introverted, but when needed I can be as social as needed, just I take it all back by being alone in the silence and I love it. I love to rummage through my own mind and think why I think, act or feel the way I do. Curious to learn new things and love to have proper conversations with people about various different topics not just exchange a list of kinks. As per my interests, can talk almost about everything, even with opposite views, as long as the other is able to stay polite and respectful. I dont think there is just one right answer for everything, there is the right answer for you and for me, buy it may be very different for us both.

Im interested of nature, animals, culture, religions and cooking/Baking. Love watching documentaries and to listen audiobooks - I listen mainly non-fiction, but I am open for fiction as well and will be happy to take any recommendations if you have some. My goal is to reach 50 books this year. Working fulltime.

Nonbinary, pansexual, aromantic.
BDSM and me
Submissive, masochist and have a love towards different restraining methods as well as to sensory deprivation. D/s is everything to me. Been in the scene over 20 years so I have a fairly good idea of who I am and what I am looking for, it does not though mean that I would of experienced everything there is, quite the opposite. I am always happy to try and find out something new. My ideology has been for a long time that if I dont know about liking something, then try. Sometimes experiences may surprise us.
Limits
Some limits seem to change depending on the person I am with, but of course some hold: ageplay, petplay, scat and and everything that is illegal - should go without saying.
Member since
December 2025
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