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parebo
I'm a big of a stereotype-breaker in that I'm both a Dominant on the D/s side of things but also a recovering people pleaser.
Bern involved with the Canberra kink community for over a decade, and I write a heap of stuff on Fetlife, mostly related to D/s.
I enjoy skiing, cycling, fine dining, writing, travelling, the occasional musical, jazz music and swing dance.
I'm a dominant, in the "mutually agreed authority transfer" sense, not the "rough play with a big ego" sense.
Recently out of a D/s dynamic, and open to connections here.
My main focus is D/s above all else, leaning towards M/s over time. That means not just play, but the genuine connection and trust which comes through consensual power exchange. Not into ego or one-sided control - it's a two way effort.
Kink is a sexual thing for me, but sex also isn't the goal. Physically my key interests are service, protocol, foot worship, rimming, restraints, anal play, electricity and low/medium impact/pain play - but all strictly within a D/s context. These things on their own, while enjoyable, don't hold the same appeal.
- Over a decade in the Canberra kink community
I write a heap of stuff on Fetlife, mostly related to D/s. I'm on there under the same name (hi anyone from the kink scene reading this).
Vanilla me, because people come first rather than their kinks: skiing, cycling, fine dining, writing, travelling, he occasional musicals, jazz music and swing dance.
Kink me - My main focus is D/s above all else. That means not just play, but the genuine connection and trust which comes through consensual power exchange. Not in to ego or one-sided control - it's a two way effort.
Kink is a sexual thing for me which I realise isn't the case for everyone but sex also isn't the goal. Physically my key interests are service, protocol, foot worship, restraints, anal play, electricity and low/medium impact/pain play - but all strictly within a D/s context. These things on their own, while enjoyable, don't hold the same appeal. 100% not all mandatory.
Soft limits (only with the right people, in the right circumstances): verbal humiliation