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HiThereCatsuitsub gender fluid
Ohio, United States
HiThereCatsuit
Age
62
About me
Hi there, I'm Catsuit
The world of kink and Femdom is my happy place. I am in love with everything this world has brought me and what is still to come.
I live for experiencing the moments. I cherish the connections. I radiate appreciation. I thrive on kindness.
I have been fortunate to share cherished space with some of the top Dommes in the world and people at local play parties. It does not matter the status when you share space with me, each and every person is cherished.
I travel around the world teaching classes, interviewing people in the scene and negotiate scenes where both find what they want and need. I am not afraid to offer myself to people for their joy and have found a submission based on kindness, service and most of all empathetic caring of the human, not the persona.
I refer to myself as a damsel as I am not a submissive or slave who turns myself over completely, but I am that, when captured, will be yours as you will have captured my body and soul.
The world of kink and Femdom is my happy place. I am in love with everything this world has brought me and what is still to come.
I live for experiencing the moments. I cherish the connections. I radiate appreciation. I thrive on kindness.
I have been fortunate to share cherished space with some of the top Dommes in the world and people at local play parties. It does not matter the status when you share space with me, each and every person is cherished.
I travel around the world teaching classes, interviewing people in the scene and negotiate scenes where both find what they want and need. I am not afraid to offer myself to people for their joy and have found a submission based on kindness, service and most of all empathetic caring of the human, not the persona.
I refer to myself as a damsel as I am not a submissive or slave who turns myself over completely, but I am that, when captured, will be yours as you will have captured my body and soul.
BDSM and me
About Me
My androgynous mind and gender fluidity come from a lifelong process of understanding my thought patterns, emotions, and vulnerability. I am still discovering what it will mean to my future, but I now understand what it means to my past.
I use he/him for people who have known me for a long time, but enthusiastically welcome they/them. I spent a lifetime of learning, unlearning and relearning how our life works, and for that I am truly grateful.
I am 6'4 and weigh about 250 pounds, but I am very much a soft soul who is guided by treating others with respect and appreciation. I am usually wearing my catsuit in kink spaces as that is my armor for my protection and for your comfort. The suit brings me happiness in its texture and tightness and acts as an amplifier to sensation that is lovely.
My kink life is made possible by the beautiful souls who have shared space with me. This has been in private homes, public spaces, professional dungeons and gatherings of the most famous people in the industry. My experiences with others don't define my experience with you as I am always welcome to play with those of differing levels as connection and energy are what are most important to me.
My age is a number, as I bring much more youthful energy to the scene in testing limits in restraint and impact. I will put myself through extensive scenes as I want to feel it all.
Communication is my joy. If you ever receive a note from me, it means I am interested in talking to you and want to establish a conversation. It is not one looking for a hookup, but one that is looking for seeing what we have in common and what we enjoy. Any direct communication about a scene comes with the understanding that no expectations are included, and that I am respectful in your wants and needs.
Relationship Status
I am single, plain and simple. I want to establish a relationship with a top leaning female as that is my preference. If you are in the Cincinnati area, I would be very open to getting to know each other as friends and see what goes from there. I believe in basing relationships on the 90/10 rule, which means how we spend 90 percent of our time as humans is just as important as any intimate times we may choose to have.
I am very open to establishing play partner relationships, and while I do not have any formal ones at this time, I do have people I play with when they are available.
D/S - While I would enjoy a Female Led Relationship (FLR) I have too much of a loving and friendly personality to ever be a slave. I want to express myself but will always show respect to a Domme or Top. For more information on this, take a look at this writing.
My life in Kink
I am a damsel. What that means is that I don't want or need to be rescued, but rather to be taken captive in the heart and mind for the ones who accept that energy and celebrate it.
I play nearly exclusively as a bottom.
My joys are to be restrained in every different way you can think of and even ways you haven't. The more complete I am captured, the deeper I can go. I love heavy bondage in leather and latex and am loving my exploration of rope as I am challenging myself to all different kinds of it. Predicament bondage is also an interest as I have come to love nipple clamps and even crotch ropes.
My love for impact is thuddy and my passion for floggers is well known. I recently lost my whip virginity, and am curious what other kinds of impact I can endure. I love to feel the weight of an implement and will go from happy puppy noises to growls depending on how I am challenged.
I currently am experienced in floggers (love them) paddles, dragon tails, single tails, whips and an assortment of stingy and thuddy. I don’t have a lot of nos but will be vocal with them as we go through your toy bag.
It is said that I am adventurous and willing to try things to experience the emotions. That means that if you are wanting to do something with me, ask and let's discuss. Recently I have tried needles and CBT for the first time, so my journey into different things will always take place.
I am currently working towards the evolution from scenes into a long term journey to bring forth a darker side to my play. Words like surrender, longing, taken, objectification, suffering, becoming nothing, and other word that would have never been associated with “sweet Catsuit” have come to mind.
I am a human who loves personal service in ways to enrich lives and to make you feel good. If you are at a party, I will be happy to carry your bag, get you (and your sub) water, foot massages (without any foot fetish) and things that bring you joy and relaxation.
I appreciate strong female presenting people. I love villains of course but most of all I want someone to challenge me and push my limits. Many of my friends say they are always surprised by how much I take.
My androgynous mind and gender fluidity come from a lifelong process of understanding my thought patterns, emotions, and vulnerability. I am still discovering what it will mean to my future, but I now understand what it means to my past.
I use he/him for people who have known me for a long time, but enthusiastically welcome they/them. I spent a lifetime of learning, unlearning and relearning how our life works, and for that I am truly grateful.
I am 6'4 and weigh about 250 pounds, but I am very much a soft soul who is guided by treating others with respect and appreciation. I am usually wearing my catsuit in kink spaces as that is my armor for my protection and for your comfort. The suit brings me happiness in its texture and tightness and acts as an amplifier to sensation that is lovely.
My kink life is made possible by the beautiful souls who have shared space with me. This has been in private homes, public spaces, professional dungeons and gatherings of the most famous people in the industry. My experiences with others don't define my experience with you as I am always welcome to play with those of differing levels as connection and energy are what are most important to me.
My age is a number, as I bring much more youthful energy to the scene in testing limits in restraint and impact. I will put myself through extensive scenes as I want to feel it all.
Communication is my joy. If you ever receive a note from me, it means I am interested in talking to you and want to establish a conversation. It is not one looking for a hookup, but one that is looking for seeing what we have in common and what we enjoy. Any direct communication about a scene comes with the understanding that no expectations are included, and that I am respectful in your wants and needs.
Relationship Status
I am single, plain and simple. I want to establish a relationship with a top leaning female as that is my preference. If you are in the Cincinnati area, I would be very open to getting to know each other as friends and see what goes from there. I believe in basing relationships on the 90/10 rule, which means how we spend 90 percent of our time as humans is just as important as any intimate times we may choose to have.
I am very open to establishing play partner relationships, and while I do not have any formal ones at this time, I do have people I play with when they are available.
D/S - While I would enjoy a Female Led Relationship (FLR) I have too much of a loving and friendly personality to ever be a slave. I want to express myself but will always show respect to a Domme or Top. For more information on this, take a look at this writing.
My life in Kink
I am a damsel. What that means is that I don't want or need to be rescued, but rather to be taken captive in the heart and mind for the ones who accept that energy and celebrate it.
I play nearly exclusively as a bottom.
My joys are to be restrained in every different way you can think of and even ways you haven't. The more complete I am captured, the deeper I can go. I love heavy bondage in leather and latex and am loving my exploration of rope as I am challenging myself to all different kinds of it. Predicament bondage is also an interest as I have come to love nipple clamps and even crotch ropes.
My love for impact is thuddy and my passion for floggers is well known. I recently lost my whip virginity, and am curious what other kinds of impact I can endure. I love to feel the weight of an implement and will go from happy puppy noises to growls depending on how I am challenged.
I currently am experienced in floggers (love them) paddles, dragon tails, single tails, whips and an assortment of stingy and thuddy. I don’t have a lot of nos but will be vocal with them as we go through your toy bag.
It is said that I am adventurous and willing to try things to experience the emotions. That means that if you are wanting to do something with me, ask and let's discuss. Recently I have tried needles and CBT for the first time, so my journey into different things will always take place.
I am currently working towards the evolution from scenes into a long term journey to bring forth a darker side to my play. Words like surrender, longing, taken, objectification, suffering, becoming nothing, and other word that would have never been associated with “sweet Catsuit” have come to mind.
I am a human who loves personal service in ways to enrich lives and to make you feel good. If you are at a party, I will be happy to carry your bag, get you (and your sub) water, foot massages (without any foot fetish) and things that bring you joy and relaxation.
I appreciate strong female presenting people. I love villains of course but most of all I want someone to challenge me and push my limits. Many of my friends say they are always surprised by how much I take.
What's new
The Teacher and Podcast Host
Many of you know me as the host of the Podcast, Authentically Kinky - (formerly known as What Women (*and other wonderful humans) Want, I am proud to be the official podcaster of Fetish Con.
In the role of Podcast Host, I have been fortunate to have an amazing array of friends in the community all over the country and all over the world from Pro Dommes, kink educators, fetish models and other amazing humans. When it comes to how I fit in, it is nice to be spoken about as someone people should know, but when it comes down to it, I am simply Catsuit, someone wanting to experience the joy of scenes and, one day, connection.
Others know me as the human who teaches classes on kindness, authenticity and improv at places like The Athens Femdom Gala 2025, TESFest 2025, Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2025, Naughty Noel 2024, Fetish Con 2023 and 2024, Kinky Kollege, CURE - Columbus, Kinkify, The Grand Fetish Affair, Spanksgiving Symposium, Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair, and KIC in Columbus.
I simply love to teach and want to present to wonderful groups and conferences. Contact me if you would like me to present at your event.
Content Creation
I was a popular filming partner for many the Dommes at the Athens Femdom Gala. They enjoyed my dedication to giving them what they want with genuine reactions and pushing the envelope.
Most recently, I have brought my acting skills to life (although there is not much acting involved to be fair) as a participant in content creation for the UltraGirl series, Mistress Natalya Sadici, Mistress Rogue and Queen Gia Love. It took me 60 years to be naked on the internet, but most of the time I am in a catsuit.
About Friend/Follow Requests and Consent to Converse
While I appreciate all the love on my pictures, I will only friend people I have a personal connection with. I am also protective of follows due to people who have chosen to use them to harass me. If you want to follow, simply drop me a note to say why you would like to follow and I will choose to follow your request or not. Blind requests will be rejected without hesitation. Thank you for your understanding.
In addition, anyone I see bullying or abusing their keyboard in ways to hurt people will be blocked. Be kind. And if you can’t be kind, we won’t interact.
Finally, being my friend does not equal an endorsement on my part. If you have a question about someone ask me.
Final Thoughts
My journey in kink is genuine and authentic. I am wanting to explore and experience a path that leads to exploring submission to a special Domme. While I am not cut out to be a 24/7 slave type, I will be the most devoted partner in service, love and kindness that you could ever imagine.
Until then, I hope to make a connection with you and share that special energy of the things we love in the dungeon in kink and fetish. Let's enjoy the world that exists when the rest of the world goes away when we are in it!
Love. Each. Other. Always.
When they hurt you, or disappoint you, or make you feel less, I'll be there.
When you think you can't go on and your heart is in pieces, I'll be there.
When they don't understand you and you don't understand them, I'll be there.
This is my lot in life. I'm the one that is there.
And when you need me, you'll know where to find me.
My dream is to find one who is there for me.
Many of you know me as the host of the Podcast, Authentically Kinky - (formerly known as What Women (*and other wonderful humans) Want, I am proud to be the official podcaster of Fetish Con.
In the role of Podcast Host, I have been fortunate to have an amazing array of friends in the community all over the country and all over the world from Pro Dommes, kink educators, fetish models and other amazing humans. When it comes to how I fit in, it is nice to be spoken about as someone people should know, but when it comes down to it, I am simply Catsuit, someone wanting to experience the joy of scenes and, one day, connection.
Others know me as the human who teaches classes on kindness, authenticity and improv at places like The Athens Femdom Gala 2025, TESFest 2025, Dark Odyssey Winter Fire 2025, Naughty Noel 2024, Fetish Con 2023 and 2024, Kinky Kollege, CURE - Columbus, Kinkify, The Grand Fetish Affair, Spanksgiving Symposium, Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair, and KIC in Columbus.
I simply love to teach and want to present to wonderful groups and conferences. Contact me if you would like me to present at your event.
Content Creation
I was a popular filming partner for many the Dommes at the Athens Femdom Gala. They enjoyed my dedication to giving them what they want with genuine reactions and pushing the envelope.
Most recently, I have brought my acting skills to life (although there is not much acting involved to be fair) as a participant in content creation for the UltraGirl series, Mistress Natalya Sadici, Mistress Rogue and Queen Gia Love. It took me 60 years to be naked on the internet, but most of the time I am in a catsuit.
About Friend/Follow Requests and Consent to Converse
While I appreciate all the love on my pictures, I will only friend people I have a personal connection with. I am also protective of follows due to people who have chosen to use them to harass me. If you want to follow, simply drop me a note to say why you would like to follow and I will choose to follow your request or not. Blind requests will be rejected without hesitation. Thank you for your understanding.
In addition, anyone I see bullying or abusing their keyboard in ways to hurt people will be blocked. Be kind. And if you can’t be kind, we won’t interact.
Finally, being my friend does not equal an endorsement on my part. If you have a question about someone ask me.
Final Thoughts
My journey in kink is genuine and authentic. I am wanting to explore and experience a path that leads to exploring submission to a special Domme. While I am not cut out to be a 24/7 slave type, I will be the most devoted partner in service, love and kindness that you could ever imagine.
Until then, I hope to make a connection with you and share that special energy of the things we love in the dungeon in kink and fetish. Let's enjoy the world that exists when the rest of the world goes away when we are in it!
Love. Each. Other. Always.
When they hurt you, or disappoint you, or make you feel less, I'll be there.
When you think you can't go on and your heart is in pieces, I'll be there.
When they don't understand you and you don't understand them, I'll be there.
This is my lot in life. I'm the one that is there.
And when you need me, you'll know where to find me.
My dream is to find one who is there for me.
Member since
Feb 4, 2026