sweetlydrowned
sub female

Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Age
27
About me

follow me, darling, into the sea
where hearts are pure and pleasure is free
take my hand, wade into the shore
the sea calls you home, forevermore

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welcome, lost soul.

I have many names, the sweeter the better. Pet names highly encouraged.

my purpose:
I am here to bond in all ways: friendship, kinship, community, romance, sensuality, love.
My profile is femme-forward, lgbtq+ friendly, progressive, very left-leaning, etc.
I also hope to enjoy the swaths of gorgeous creatures that populate this site, offering my awe and admiration.

vanilla daydreams:
I am quite introverted, a haunted thing, drenched in wildness. I write like I am running out of time. My fingers are always smudged from sketching. The earth is my first and true mother. The sea is my home. I am lovingly adorned in various tattoos, painting this canvas of a body I was privileged to inhabit. My heart is twelve sizes too big, and growing everyday. My true love is books. If you do not also love books, and stories, and poetry, and language…I may not be the woman for you. Lover of learning, gathering knowledge and skills and crafts like quests.

 

welcome to my little haven, my capsized ship, my lighthouse guiding you home.

all my love,
sweetlydrowned

BDSM and me

sensual secrets:
I am a good girl with a melancholy soul. I adore all things soft and sweet and whimsical. I romanticize my life, and I romanticize my bed. Consent and safety are vital to me, and are not open to negotiation. I must enjoy you—your heart, your mind, your dreams, your beliefs, your soul—in order to enjoy your body and your touch. Submission is where I feel most at home: a safe, sacred space where my soul rests and blooms.

favorite things:
D/s, DD/lg & MD/lg, power exchange, tpe, praise, light humiliation, teasing, talking me through it, manhandling, kissing until dizzy, bites and bruises, obsession, possessiveness, getting lost in another person, feeling like a pretty porcelain doll, being prey, being wanted, and an endless waterfall of other things.

 

who are you:
friend - feel too much, think too much, deviant, filthy, devoted, wish to suck the marrow from life
play partner - very picky, emotional/physical/mental attraction ALL matter, open to recurring & one time encounters though I prefer the former, respect is earned, not all requests are answered
long-term partner - I’ll know it when I find it, hopeless romantic, slow and intentional, soul bond

consistent communication, reliability, and emotional depth are requirements of any connection. If I don’t FEEL important to you, I will quietly remove myself.

Limits
absolutely not:
conservatives, republicans, centrists, apoliticals, porn addicts, misogynists, poor communicators, arrogance, AI users & apologists, emotional immaturity, apathy, selfishness, anti-romance, serial daters, serial cheaters, and general negativity.

hard limits: scat, watersports, vomit, infidelity, extreme bondage (hoods, vacuum seal, etc.), extreme pain, permanent marks, manipulation, rape play, race play, degradation, extreme humiliation (some light is okay after discussion), fear play, infidelity, dishonesty, no aftercare. This list is always subject to edits, additions, and clarifications.
Member since
Feb 21, 2026
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