SLO Lee

dom male

69

Single

Just because I chat with you does not mean I'm trying to be your D-type or assume you’re my S-type.  Such dynamics take time.  Just saying I'll chat with anyone and enjoy friendly banter.  Please have a GSOH (good sense of humor)

Much rather start by being your acquaintance, a friend to chat, laugh, and share ideas, which may lead to more.  And if so, is there sufficient compatibility to meet, perhaps for coffee with no assumptions or expectations, yet perhaps with anticipation and hope.

I am not looking for a hookup.  Age gaps are understandable and vary with perspective, though some are chasms I can't cross.  I am an occasional drinker - a glass of wine on a cozy evening, a cocktail at a party or a couple of beers when socializing out. I do not smoke or 420.

I am quiet, gentle, patient yet assertive gentleman for the most part. But, there is another part... 😉

Limits are personal and can adjust with time, trust and togetherness.

After decades of vanilla marriage, I’m free to explore the part of me which seeks this LS. While not completely new, I know I have much to learn and I’d like to build a real and sincere relationship with one as there is so much to learn, to experience and to enjoy. 

Looking for an intimate connection which can amplify the joy of a walk, biking, camping, movies, nice dinners, conversation, and simplicity of companionship on long drives going nowhere and anywhere.  All to say I seek the best in a relationship, I seek one with whom to give my best.  Therefore I seek IRL dynamic, not solely online. 

Mar 3, 2026