I’m a Financial Professional with restaurant quality cooking skills. I speak English, Spanish and Korean, love to travel, reading, playing board games, and watching/discussing movies.
I am unapologetically passionate about life and intimacy. My sex drive, stamina and sexual proficiency has been a bit of a blessing and a curse so I don’t see it as something to brag about. I’ve had trouble finding partners that can keep up tbh.
I focus a lot on physical fitness and entrepreneurship. My ambition hobbies include invention (e.g., app development, drawing webtoon and children’s books art, writing, etc.) and learning (wealth management and self betterment audiobooks).
Let me repeat, I’m highly ambitious, motivated and focused, especially when it comes to personal and financial growth. I will not ignore a partner, however I do expect a partner to have drive and show support while we build a secure future for the both of us.
Tolerating / performing head games, having poor communication and not knowing what I wanted was a phase in my 20’s. Not now.
I am a sadist Dom. Don’t let that categorization or my monicker deter you but only IF you understand what it means.
I’m a respectful and kind person who wants the best for my sub(s). I want her to be the best she can be in life, secure as a person, comfortable with her surroundings, and happy within her skin.
I like to build trust, to break away fears, misconceptions, to dissolve past trauma that isn’t useful, and get to the core of a need.
Yes trauma can be useful. It can be freeing to know just how broken you are and what areas of that brokenness define you. Accepting what you are is a step toward happiness, but one must come to terms with the pieces, and throw out the shards that cause pain without pleasure.
This exploration only happens by asking questions and proving that she can lean on me in truth without a fear of being abandoned for it.
However, and this is a big one, once the trust is built, once she has established what her boundaries are by trial and error and open communication and we have locked those things in and agree this is both what we want, she will finally need to let go.
We can have safe words to make sure trust is never abused, but within the scope of the parameters we’ve both set, she is mine.
She is mine the way a wave owns its spray across a rock. She should expect dark romantic moments if she earns it, and the freedom of a well cared for slave. Obedience will be rewarded, and punishment will be expertly administered. Fear won’t be a part of the relationship, even when she is being taken apart, it’ll be physically, psychologically, and emotionally pleasurable.
I’ll never dismiss her opinion or disregard her needs. But if she gives me the keys to be what I am and places herself in the role she yearns to be in, she should trust in me to have final say.
Disclaimers; if you’re looking for a gentleman dom that performs checks upon every single interaction, I am not him.
If you want to paint a clear picture of the cage you’re willing to climb into via rigorous testing and open communication, and then hand me the keys to play within those boundaries, I’m yours.
Don’t worry, you’ll have a second pair of keys for safe keeping, but if I’m doing my job correctly, you’ll never want to use them.
Lastly, if you aren’t in shape, be prepared to be coached into the best shape of your life. I want the diamond within you.
Will not tolerate open rebellion and disrespect.
scat, ageplay, gore, snuff.
30+ countries so far. Want to get to 50+ countries in my life someday.