I am a 45 married female. Been married for 22 years and have started to hate how sexually incompatible I am with my husband. We have recently opened our marriage and I have a person that I have been talking to intimately for two months now that definitely seems to be a lot more compatible with me than my husband is. The only downside is that its long distance. Still a distance that can be closed with some travel.
I am new to the world of BDSM. I have only recently accepted that this is an interest of mine. I know that the idea of being tied up by my person excites me. Along with the ides of being owned by him. I am just getting my toes wet in this world and know that there is A LOT to learn
I am new to this but I do know that I am not into anything that involves humiliation, poop, pee, age play. As far as pain goes just enough so that it is pleasure pain. nothing that hurts to much