Hey there! I am a pretty laid back, awkward, and goofy guy who and doesn't do well with shallow stuff. I love sci-fi and fantasy movies, video games and tv shows (Stargate, and Buffy anyone?), and love all things deep dark and interesting. I've always been drawn to learning and exploring new perspectives, philosophical ideas, the nature of all things and pushing the boundaries and understanding of foundational beliefs.
I’m still relatively new to real life kink, though I’ve been drawn to it for many years. I haven’t had much hands on experience yet, but I’m seriously looking for a longterm dynamic with the right person.
I’m into a wide range of kinks, but what I’m mainly looking for is a deep power exchange. For me, it’s about deep trust, real connection, and that profound sense of belonging. At my core, I’m a Sadist Dom I crave the intensity of sadism and ownership, but I also love soft, sweet, and affectionate moments. I want a girl who can be my obedient masochist and service slave, while also enjoying the caring, and softer moments as well.
I live with chronic pain, so I am not the type to be constantly active. My life is quieter and slower but my Dominant nature is not about movement, it is about presence, structure, and care. I am looking for someone who craves that steady kind of control and finds peace and safety in belonging to a man who leads with intention and devotion, even if our lives don't look like the stereotype.
I’ve gone through a big transformation in my life. I lost a significant amount of weight over the past few years and I’m still working on my fitness and body confidence. That journey has really helped me understand who I am and what I want. I’m committed to being honest and realistic about where I’m at.
I’m looking for honest conversations that can grow into a real connection. If you’re a masochistic, service oriented submissive who wants a longterm dynamic I’d love to hear from you. I want to build something meaningful where we can explore both the sweet affectionate side and the deeper, more intense side of power exchange.