In a monogamous relationship
i'm a 35 years old software developer from Northen Italy.
i'm also a kind of geek/nerd type who loves to read books over books (yes, my dream house MUST have a room packed with tons of books) and to play with all the new technologies.
i'm pretty shy at start so i can sound a bit stubborn but it's just the first impact: if Y/you have a working brain and a good sense of humor, we'll have fun!
i started to get interested into BDSM about 7 years ago.
At that time i was already married and tried to explore with my beloved wife but she's not interested at all: heck, she tought i'm crazy.
So, after many fights, attempts, recounciliations we found a sort of agreement where she lets me to explore on internet this dark side of mine while she says time by time if she's comfortable with.
i'm more submissive (and, to complete the cliché, i got a good, commanding, position and role in my vanilla working life) and i'm intrigued more by a smart brain than a body, so i do not care about the gender (ok, it's a little lie: an hot Woman or Man is surely something charming if got a working brain too!).
My interest born as Femdom and slowly take a strange and naughty steer towards feminization/sissyfication: it's not my ultimate step, i'm pretty sure, but they are my actual triggers!
Age play, bestiality, blood, watergames and scat.