Feel free to ask.
I've enjoyed life and will continue to enjoy it till my last breathe.
Currently in the US but prefer living in Europe. So any connection made there will have to be an understanding that a good portion of our time will be spent in Europe.
I am drawn to the psychology of control and surrender; the trust, the honesty, the vulnerability. For me b d s m is less about the acts and more about connection and communication and growth. If you understand that dynamic, we'll likely connect. I'm into structure, trust and mutual respect. I enjoy clear power dynamics and genuine submission, not roleplay without connection. My interests lead towards mental dominance, ritual, anticipation and discipline rather than chaos and cruelty. Control should be earned and trust should be kept.
Anything illegal, scat and no long term harm (physical or mental)
Also, I just find it funny that once I ask for a non member how they want to verify who they claim to be that they just ghost LOL