I have been involved in DBSM pretty much my whole adult life. I am looking for a sub to become my in person slave. But I want someone who can become my lover, my friend, my life long partner. I understand that submission is a gift and not something to be taken, that this type of relationship is built over time through honest communication and trust. I believe seduction starts with anticipation. When the magic clicks the bond is beyond anything I have ever experienced. I value patience, intensity, and the quiet kind of control that lingers long after the touch is gone. Power isn’t about taking; it’s about guiding you to the edge and waiting until you whisper yes. If you crave the silent pull between command and surrender, the intensity, honesty, and a touch that says everything words never can then we may already understand each other.
I am looking for my forever slave here in Minnesota but I am open to a long distance relationship with the right woman. That woman should be Caucasian and not be a plus size woman. She must also agree with me that kink is the most important aspect of the relationship - that getting to know someone sexually first is more important than getting to know them on a personal level. It does not matter if we both enjoy watching soccer or dancing if the kink does not align. But this is more than just kink. Kink is the basis of the relationship I am interested in creating. But I want someone who wants this for both vanilla and kink and understands that the two are intertwined - inseparable - always there. I understand that submission is a gift from a strong woman to a strong man who does not take it for granted. It is a partnership where we help each other grow as the relationship deepens. This is built over time and mutual trust that is earned through honest communication and follow through of actions over just words.
Anything to do with another man. I don't share. Not many but like others here, I detest ghosting. Just tell me. Or better, be gracious and help me improve!
Just because you are submissive doesn’t mean you can’t make first contact. Please, if you like my profile then send me a note.
i’ve often thought about a TPE relationship but have yet to find a woman that agrees with my definition and application of it.