UmbraGriseo
other male

Oregon, United States
Age
63
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
I long to control you or let go altogether and letting you take me on your ride. I’m not a switch; if I lead I will keep leading; if I submit to you; I will continue to serve.

I am most interested in an immersive experience. I am really not into limits in any direction (assume green unless I say yellow or red) and I prefer not to have any expectations, since we are all growing and changing along the way.

If you would like to play or just to chat with me without any conditions, please send me a message. Always safe, always with consent; a perfect gentleman until it’s time to play.
BDSM and me
I am interested in all aspects of BDSM but am not looking to fulfill a specific fantasy. All ages are appealing: if you are older, I see you as an mentor; if younger, especially 20's or 30's would be appealingly degrading to serve one without all the experience and wisdom you will ignore. I'd like to serve a Dom / Domme or couple; not timid about expectations or punishment. As a reluctant slave, I will be challenging, and if you give up control I am likely to seize it.
Limits
STDs, animals, persons under the age of 18 or legally incompetent); Condoms required for sexual penetration unless we both provide written proof that we are both free from STDs).  Safe-words required and respected by all involved.
Update date
Feb 4, 2023
Member since
Jun 8, 2018
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