Mature in age and mind. Here to share with someone the joy of kink not battle the complexities of every day life. This is not a place I want to explore anger or disappointment sadness or silence but joy pleasure and satisfaction. This does not indicate a lack of seriousness on my behalf but rather being totally upfront as to why I am here. I am easy to engage with in conversation but please be an adult about it and say what you want. I am open to IRL or online or both or even shouting at each other from across the street . I am in a ENM and I do not mind your status as long as you are aware of mine and are honest about yours.
Years of knowledge , experiences , failures and successes. I am not here to get laid I am here to connect with you through kink .
My journey in BDSM has enlightened me to liking some aspects and not liking other aspects. I have no taste or interests in : groups, free use, animals, children, excessive pain/blood, drugs, illegal , knives/needles and men
When you realise you have made an effort for it to mean little to nothing for the other person!