I am a sub leaning switch, mtf female, only recently in the last 3 years came out as Trans and started hrt, and my exploration of kink and D/s dynamics. Iike to say that I am 64 going on 25, esp on estrogen and going through second puberty, young at heart, even id my joints don't always agree with me.
I have thought about bdsm my whole life but only began in depth exploration 3 yrs ago after coming out as a bi/ pan/ lately demi-sexual Trans woman.
the usual: no non sexual body fluids (except soft limits with either blood play or piss play negotiated on a case by case basis), no my mouth to your ass (rimming) unless we've showered together (a soft limit once trust is built), no human toilet, no weapons, stabbing, piercing, punching, bruising, doing pereminent damage, no underage, no illegal activity, no alcohol or drugs for me, no findom, no age play, no race play. Always have safe words /behaviours and aftercare agreed to before play beings.
I am recently out of two D/s dynamics, both subs to me, and while I am 80% sub, 20 % Domme, I'm still looking to grow my experience as a new Domme, with those who have self awareness and good communication skills.