Pneuma

sub male

"So familiar and overwhelmingly warm
This one, this form I hold now
Embracing you, this reality here
This one, this form I hold now, so
Wide eyed and hopeful
Wide eyed and hopefully wild
We barely remember what came before this precious moment
Choosing to be here right now
Hold on, stay inside
This body, holding me
Reminding me that I am not alone in
This body, makes me feel eternal
All this pain is an illusion"

I was born in Iran and moved to the U.S. when I was 20. I speak فارسی, English Und Ich lerne Deutsch. I have a wide range of interests—everything from Saturday night bar and restaurant hopping with friends to traveling, hiking and gardening. I love food and wine, coin collecting, metal detecting, and rockhounding. I’m equally drawn to philosophy and finance, nature and car mechanics, woodworking, leatherworking, computers, electricity, science, history, poetry, art and music.

Neuropsychology is an all-time favorite of mine too. I’m fascinated by the ways the “mental” and the “physical” are intertwined.

My “me days” take many forms, but more often than not—usually in the morning—you’ll find me in the backyard sitting by a fire, staring off into space, listening to the trees, the birds and the wind. Sometimes I’m holding a black coffee or tea, though on certain days nothing beats a hot cocoa.

My adventure into kink began very young—guided mostly by instinct, curiosity, self-exploration, imagination, trauma, bondage, predicaments, and a bit of pain I embarked on a journey of self-discovery.

People in the lifestyle often assume I’m a switch, and I can understand why. For the longest time I did not want to accept my dominant personality and qualities but I've grown to enjoy being the captain of my own ship. Although there is still much to learn about discipline and structure.

When it comes to the bedroom and BDSM in general, I have no desire to steer from the dominant side, though I can see myself stepping into a topping role on occasions.
I would be open to discuss further authority transfer with the right partner.
When compatibility and trust are present, they open new doors.

While submission can take many forms, I see it as both a response to domination and power and an expression of love. Letting go of "my way", of what is comfortable, reshaping behaviors and mindsets the way someone else wants me to build myself is petrifying! Although I think with the right set-up It can be the most wonderful experience!

Monogamy has been the default for most of my life, but I’ve discovered that, with the right set-up, I am able to embrace something more flexible. One thing is certain though: involving other men is off the table.

With all that said, I usually take the bottom role—with the few partners I’ve had.


Why am I drawn to a D/s dynamic with a dominant woman:

Engaging in power exchange is cathartic for me. It feels like having a second pair of lungs.

As a me, I naturally invest myself in my partner’s happiness. I find meaning and happiness in bringing value and stability, humor and support. Devoting my time and energy to someone I care about, feels deeply fulfilling. It gives me clarity, purpose, and something to look forward to, as well as someone to build for.
Over the course of my life, I've crossed paths with a few women and a fewer men who taught me about foundation, attention to details, organization, capacity, diplomacy and hard work. Lessons that left me with lot more to be desired from myself. It seemed like what came natural to them, was a struggle for me. I felt inferior and ashamed. Over time, practice and repetition made things easier, but I’ve long been curious about what its like to be led by an intelligent, dominant woman whom I had a chemistry with: to learn, to grow, and to explore that dynamic with intention and respect.

I would be dishonest to overlook the erotic and sexual pull of surrendering to the desire of a beautiful and dominant woman!


I’m here to understand myself better and make meaningful connections.

== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
91% Masochist
88% Pet
77% Experimentalist
74% Slave
70% Primal (Prey)
33% Degradee
29% Vanilla
27% Non-monogamist
21% Voyeur
15% Sadist
15% Brat
13% Switch
12% Exhibitionist
11% Rigger
6% Dominant
4% Owner
4% Primal (Hunter)
2% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Little
0% Master/Mistress