-Dolly-switch gender fluid
-Dolly-
Personal Stuff
I have no kids, and kids aren't in my life plan.
I'm almost 5'10", and I hope not to shrink for a while yet.
I'm plus-sized, and am prone to shameless nudity.
I hate being referred to as a BBW, since I don't identify as a woman.
My pronouns are They/Theirs/They're/They'd/They'll or use my name such as "Dolly/Dolly's/Dolly'd/Dolly'll"... If we have an objectification dynamic in place, I'm cool with being referred to as "it/it's/it would/it will".
My hair is naturally dark brown, and wavy. It's currently a jade and brown mohawk.
My eyes are hazel, on the golden side.
I have either 12 or 21 tattoos.
I have 3 brands (from a Violet Wand); I'd like more.
I have piercings sometimes.
I live in Newmarket with Racer26, my awesome partner, and Owner of 10+ years.
These Things Amuse Me
Singing & people with the moxie to do karaoke
Innovative perversions and community-building
Photography with interesting light choices
Art based around fairy-tales (especially perverted tales)
Live Music - I'm partial to country, folk, blues, bluegrass and rock
Electronic Music - I dance to industrial, filthy dubstep and electro-swing
Eloquent, intelligent, and accurate word choice
Books about swords, sorcery, magic horsies, and maybe some lust
Ball pits that have been properly cleaned
Pretending I like the Canadians to piss off my Leafs-lovin' friends
Settlers of Catan; Carcasonne, Takenoko, Last Night On Earth, Ticket To Ride, Pandemic, Guillotine
These Things Do Not Amuse Me
Discordant music and/or experimental jazz
Hockey, baseball and football
Governments intruding in the private lives of their citizens.
Being at events without a personal mission, (either a service to someone or to the event, or a particular desired scene, interaction, or toy to buy).
I'm Dolly; that scary, sweet, awkward, cuddly person.
I'm polyamorous.
I'm flirty, dirty, and wordy.
I enjoy both serving others, and being served.
I follow RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink).
I can usually dish out more than I care to receive.
I believe in honour, integrity, and respect.
I believe in caring and consequences.
I enjoy creative kink, wild sensations, and adorable sadism.
People who want me to black their boots honour me! Panty-melting bonus points if they're also into kicking me around with those boots.
Rope is totally awesome from either side of the bight, if it's done with someone who wants to be with me, not just with rope.
Suffering to show my partners that I honour, respect, care, adore and love them is something I do. I'll take way more pain or discomfort for someone special who wants me to hurt than I would normally seek out on my own.
Blood and boot polish look pretty on me; I have references.
The general rule is don't do anything to me that we haven't discussed, and I haven't freely consented to let you do to me.
Racer's Privilege Only
Fucking me without a condom vaginally or anally
Punishing me
Hard Limits
Don't fucking do it.
Anything you haven't gotten my consent for.
Negotiating with, negotiating to involve, or actually playing with those individuals who are currently incapable of legally giving consent (this includes animals and minors, but also people currently under the influence of destabilizing meds, drugs, alcohol, or emotions so heavily that they're impaired).
Playing with someone who is in a relationship where their partner(s) don't know about me, or would not be ok with me seeing them.
Joking that "That Isn't Your Safeword" instead of just stopping to check in with me. I don't use codewords. If I'm saying any variant "No, Stop, Mercy, I need to shift, RED, I'm not comfortable with that"? I mean it.
Snakes/bugs/creepy-crawlies being part of play.
Scat or vomit as a scene goal.
Lactation play
Soft Limits
These are things you and I need to have a solid talk about before attempting, and my usual response will be no. I'm willing to have the discussion though.
Calling me humiliating names.
Threatening to, or actually using, a belt on me, or in a scene that involves me.
Breeding fetish RP
Punishment RP/"Funishment", as opposed to "Getting Beaten Recreationally".
Food on skin, or in orifices.